Baby Steps #1: How We Got Gay Pregnant
My wife and I are having a baby and this is the first edition of Baby Steps, a column about the gestation and eventual birth of this human child who I think is going to be pretty tall!
I Can’t Believe They Went to a Dyke Bar (Again!) on ‘Real Housewives of New York’
Racquel, Hot Mel, Erin, and Abe head to The Bush in Brooklyn.
‘How Can I Talk to My Friend/Crush About Sexual Compatibility Without Being Weird?’
Does it make sense to suggest talking about how we feel about kissing/ cuddling/ sex-related stuff/etc.? And if so, what’s the best way to go about it respectfully and in an ace-affirming way?
‘Arcane’ Continues With Hope, Heartache, and a Goth Era
“I can appreciate a girl who’s down bad and Cait sure is that!”
Questions To Ask Yourself Before Going to Your Family’s Super Straight, Potentially Hostile Holiday Gathering
The answers to which might tell you you shouldn’t go at all.
Bi Reality Star Francesca Farago and Fiancé Jesse Sullivan Welcome Twins Named Locket and Poetry
Bi Reality Star Francesca Farago and Trans TikToker Jesse Sullivan’s twins have been birthed and named! Also: Sophie Turner gets eyed for Lara Croft, Cynthia Erivo compares Elphaba’s othering to being a Black queer woman, and more!
Kate Bush Songs That Make Me Feel Gay and Invincible as Hell
I talk about Bush and her contributions a lot with friends, but when news of her potentially heading back into the studio dropped, I immediately started thinking about a list of songs.
Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis Are Going To Be Soccer Moms!
Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis are expecting their first child in 2025.
No Matter Where You Live, You Can Stream These Short Plays by Black Trans Women Tonight
Multi-hyphenate playwright Lady Dane Figueroa Edidi shares the origin and intention of Black Trans Women at the Center, a theatre festival now in its fifth year.
Quiz: Which Planet Should You Move To?
Be honest is it time to pack up your things and move to Venus? Or maybe Saturn is more your style? Let’s find out.
20 Dorothy Allison Quotes I Think About All The Time
“Two or three things I know, but this is the one I am not supposed to talk about, how it comes together — sex and violence, love and hatred.”
Should I Dump My Trump-Loving Girlfriend?
Your girlfriend just straight up voted for Trump, so now what?? Also, a reader feels conflicted about Trump voters throwing her baby shower.
Sarah McBride Is a Zionist
As an elected official, McBride deserves a thorough examination of her beliefs and values.
Forget ‘Red’ and ‘Blue’ States — Fascism Is Everywhere
Fascism cannot be defeated by the thing that helps fuel its perpetuation and its intensification.
32 Fruits, Ranked By Fruits
There comes a time in everybody’s life when you wonder…. what is the best fruit? And if you are surrounded by fruits, it’s time to settle this once and for all.
There’s Never Been a Better Time To Watch “Anita Bryant Pie in the Face”
Jenni Olson talks about her new series now running at the Harvard Film Archive that includes her own films and a 16mm print of Anita Bryant getting a pie in the face.
14 Queer People Share Their Favorite Dating Apps and Sites of All Time
For pretty much as long as the internet has existed, queers have used it to find each other. We were online dating before it was the norm.
Forget U-Hauling — These Queer Couples Don’t Want To Move In Together At All
You’ve heard the one about lesbians wanting to move in together on the second date, but what about the couples who aren’t looking to move in together at all?
No Filter: All the Girls and Gays Defied Gravity at the ‘Wicked’ Premiere
Victoria Monét, Hayley Kiyoko, and more showed up to celebrate Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande.
‘My Partner and I Have Completely Different Concepts of Bedtime’
I really do want to be able to go to bed together.