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What I’ve found to be near-universally helpful is talking to people about it.

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‘Why Are People Into That?’ Asks Incisive Questions About Kink

Tina Horn’s new book will challenge some of your problematic notions no matter how confident you are in your sex positivity.

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The First On-Screen Kiss Was Between Two Women

For fifty years, women were allowed to kiss on-screen — here are some of the best examples before censorship ended an era.

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Mini Crossword Is Reclaiming Some Terms

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New Documentary ‘Power of the Dream’ Is a Reminder of the WNBA’s Core Values

It’s important for new and old fans of the WNBA to understand that while this league has 144 of the best women and nonbinary basketball players in the world, it’s also about more than basketball. It has to be.

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June 18, 2024 2 Comments
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‘The Lack of Physical Affection From My Girlfriend Is Becoming Unbearable’

“I just feel like a huge 30-year-old crybaby thinking about asking for more physical affection and, on my worst days, starting to think ‘maybe moving in was a mistake.'”

Summer Tao June 18, 2024 6 Comments
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Movie Features

With Its Pride Slate, the Criterion Collection Wants Us To Be Gay and (Maybe) Do Crime

To even say, Criterion’s Pride releases is a sign of our changed — and improved — times.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 18, 2024
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All The Gay Stuff From the 2024 Tonys: Angelina Jolie, Maleah Joi Moon, Sarah Paulson and So Much More

Who all’s gay at the Tony Awards, Danielle Savre’s next project, Billie Eilish’s is setting new records, everyone’s loving Kristen Stewart’s new road trip comedy, and more queer news for you!

Valerie Anne June 17, 2024 4 Comments
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Bobbi Salvör Menuez Is a Bad Liar

“I’m just so grateful that I got to work on Adam when I did. Literally six months before we started filming, I bought my first binder and went through a breakup with this cis boy I’d been dating.”

Drew Burnett Gregory June 17, 2024 2 Comments
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‘Wreck’ Season Two Said It’s Hot Queer Slasher Summer

‘Wreck’ turns the horrors of capitalism into slasher-comedy thrills.

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‘Cora Bora’ Stars Meg Stalter as a Messy Grieving Bisexual

I love an indie about a messy bisexual. Throw in good songs and a lovely third act, and I can forgive some imperfections.

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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Likes Both Boobs and Birds

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Disco Was Always for the Gays

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya June 16, 2024 9 Comments
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This Tessa Thompson-Directed Music Video Oozes Sapphic Yearning

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