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Da Brat & Jesseca “Judy” Dupart kiss at their wedding. There is a minister in a black pantsuit and pink coat behind them, and an arch of purple flowers. Wedding guess look on and smile, all of them wearing shades of pink and purple. MICHAEL SEABROOK/WE TV
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Lesbian Weddings

Da Brat’s Wedding Photos Are a Gay Fairytale Designed to Melt the February Ice Around Your Heart

In this post is every photo from Da Brat’s wedding that I could find because Black love is beautiful and we deserve. That is all.

Carmen Phillips February 24, 2022 3 Comments
Legends of Tomorrow Avalance: Bisexual Sara pushes lesbian Ava against a wall in a gay way before kissing her
TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 712 Recap: Days of Future Avalance

Sara and Ava imagine a domestic future together in the penultimate episode of the season.

Valerie Anne February 24, 2022 5 Comments
A black and white image shows a Black woman in a collared shirt with curly, shoulder-length hair whispering to woman with long, dark hair who has her hand over her mouth in surprise and is also wearing a collared shirt. The image is surrounded by a yellow, scalloped border with black dots.
Dating

You Bad-Mouth Every Single One of Your Exes? That’s a Red Flag!

If your partner always portrays themself as the wronged party in the trials and tribulations of past relationships — red flag.

Taneasha February 24, 2022 8 Comments
A sketched white outline of a person has their hands on their chest, and a light glows where their heart should be.
First Person

Grief Exists in Its Own Time Zone

There’s a reason people say things like “grief isn’t linear,” and “you won’t feel this way forever,” and there’s also a reason it feels like you’re hearing those things through a set of ear muffs when you’re in the moment.

Rosemary Donahue February 24, 2022 7 Comments
A Black woman in a red beret reads a book with a mug in one hand
Literature

Rainbow Reading: Trans! Vampire! Romance!

Plus, the debate about Sally Rooney’s depictions of bisexuality and queerness continues apace.

Yashwina February 24, 2022 4 Comments
Dickens talks to their friend, Saria, about a potentially being set up on a date by Penny, their mutual friend. Dickens wants to know "why." Saria is in a green sweatshirt and Dickens in a grey polo. they are talking against a rainbow pastel background.
Webcomics

Foolish Child #114: Meet Cute

“I thought you wanted to start dating in your forties?”

Dickens February 23, 2022 4 Comments
A fork, an empty white plate, a knife and a spoon are against a teal background.
Health

What I Wish People Knew About Eating Disorders, as a Queer Person Who Had One

It’s National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, and I’m choosing to create the queer media coverage I want to see.

Ro White February 23, 2022 21 Comments
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First Person

We Call It Time Travel

To love someone new is to agree to travel somewhere that doesn’t exist yet together.

Vanessa February 23, 2022 36 Comments
Eve and Villanelle hold each other close and dance in Killing Eve
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Sandra Oh and Jodie Comer Love Villaneve’s Dancing and Kissing as Much as You Do

Cynthia Nixon remains baffled by your And Just Like That feelings, the trailer for Aisha Dee’s Sissy, HBO’s Last of Us series is on hold until next year, and more!

Heather Hogan February 23, 2022 2 Comments
This is a collage work of art. The base is a shiny, golden background of slightly crumpled looking paper. On top is a collage of flowers and green growing plants. From these plants emerge the figures of three Black women. One is in black and white and is wearing a white, fluffy cotillion gown, another has braided hair and is looking away and is in color, a third is smaller, and is glancing downward contemplatively. Written in the background are the words: "she runs her gender, not the other way around" with an eye underneath those words
AF+

By Fighting Gender Expectations, My Mother Made Room for Me to Be Myself

“I faced the difficult truth that, despite it getting me through so much, “Black womanhood” alone simply can not capture the essence of my soul, and it does not always feel like a perfect fit.”

Amari Gaiter February 23, 2022 5 Comments
Keke Palmer taking a mirror selfie while sticking her tongue out and squatting, wearing a metallic silver top and camo pants with heeled boots
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Another Day To Wake Up and Wonder Why Keke Palmer Isn’t Running the World

Also, I simply love a woman in a Big Blazer.

Christina Tucker February 23, 2022 2 Comments
Kristen Stewart looks off to the left of camera with a contemplative look on her face and blond highlights in her short hair, gelled and styled off her face
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Kristen Stewart Is So Excited To Get Married She’s Worried She’ll Make The Wedding Weird

The USWNT will FINALLY get fair pay, “Call Me Maybe” is still a cultural moment 10 years later, and how Black feminists defined abortion rights.

Carmen Phillips February 22, 2022 8 Comments
Vex puts her hand on Keyleth's shoulder and Keyleth looks down shyly with a lil smile
TV Show Recaps

The Casually Queer Finale of “The Legend of Vox Machina”

A lot goes down in these final three episodes of the season, including but not limited to Vex making Keyleth blush.

Valerie Anne February 22, 2022 18 Comments
The author Gretchen Felker-Martin. She is wearing red framed glasses and black lipstick and her hair is short and dark brown. On either side of her is the cover of her new novel Manhunt.
Book Features

Gretchen Felker-Martin on “Manhunt,” Martyrdom, and the Unimportance of Being Valid

“Manhunt is really my attempt to show the utility and the importance of existing in discomfort.”

Drew Burnett Gregory February 22, 2022 18 Comments
A feminine South Asian person in a black and white dress holds the hem of their dress in one hand and a Pride flag wit measuring scales on the other hand.
Gender Politics + Activism

How a Trans-Inclusive Manual for School Teachers Turned Controversial in India

The backlash that ensued after a trans-inclusive education manual was released demonstrated that post-independence India still reckons with the legacy of British colonialism.

Anmol Arora February 22, 2022 4 Comments
Photo 1: A person wears a long black leather trench over black pants and a black top. Photo 2: A pair of cateye pink sunglasses. Photo 3: A heeled black boot. Photo 4: A person wears leather opera gloves with a gray cape and matching dress.
Queer Fashion

Five Outfits for When You Want To Feel Like the Lead in an Assassin Thriller

Here are a few outfits for when you want to feel like the lead in an assassin thriller where this time, the lead is totally gay!

danijanae February 22, 2022 6 Comments
on top of a black brick background sits an illustrated rendering of the stomach, liver, pancreas, large intestine and small intestine with little lines coming off to indicate excitement
AF+

A+ Roundtable: Gut Feelings

These are literally our feelings about our digestive systems! The team spills their guts about…our guts!

the team February 22, 2022 17 Comments
blue watercolor image with different gradients of blue cascading across the screen, starting with deep dark blue on the far right and ending up with light light blue on the far left
Life

You Need Help: Trying To Live Through the Pandemic Is Destroying My Mental Health

I want you to hold this: Even though the world is kind of terrible, your life is precious and valuable, and you are loved.

himani February 22, 2022 24 Comments
A white sketched outline of a person hovers over a curved line. On the other side of the curved line is a drawn figure in black ink.
First Person

To Travel, Like Light

So much of my experience of poetry is wrapped up in time.

danijanae February 22, 2022 8 Comments
Francine with her undercut haircut, rolled up sleeves and gold hoops talks to Muffy
Television TV Feature

Did The “Arthur” Finale Just Confirm The Lesbian Is A Lesbian?!?

When grown-up Francine walked through the door in the finale, I can’t say I didn’t see it coming.

Em Win February 22, 2022 8 Comments
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