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Dating

5 Tips On Dating a Girl Who Is Only Kinda Sorta Maybe Out To Her Family And Friends

“Give her time, give her love and support and when she’s ready to whack the rainbow flag bumper sticker on her car, then she will.”

Tully June 11, 2012 58 Comments
Issues LGBT History

Before “The L Word,” There Was Lesbian Pulp Fiction

Unfortunate representation of queer communities may piss us off but it doesn’t mean it won’t help in some wacked out way. Just look at lesbian pulp fiction novels.

Brittani June 11, 2012 18 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

The 2012 Tony Awards Super Ultra Mega Gay Liveblog Situation

Will Neil Patrick Harris rap again? Find out here!

Intern Grace June 10, 2012 26 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Wants to Taste the Rainbow in Your Pants

This week on NSFW Sunday: couples with roommates, feminist porn, bike smut, and tasting the rainbow in your pants.

Guest June 10, 2012 12 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Needs a Gaycation

Lady Gaga is done with her next album and Obama is making good speeches again. Now let’s go to the beach.

Carmen June 10, 2012 25 Comments
Politics + Activism

Charlotte Bunch Is Important: The Autostraddle Interview

“I mean, we would not have violence against women or any issues of women’s rights on the agenda if we had waited for the human rights boys to say it was time.”

Jamie J. Hagen June 9, 2012 17 Comments
Society + Culture

Jamaica’s First Lesbian Wedding Ever In History Is Adorable, Deeply Moving

This is by far the best thing to happen this month. Maybe this lifetime.

Carmen June 9, 2012 20 Comments
Society + Culture

Lesbians Win “Cutest Couple” In High School Yearbook, Are In Fact The Cutest Couple

Students in an allegedly ‘conservative’ rural county in California vote a lesbian couple as “cutest couple,” and it wasn’t a prank or anything.

Riese June 8, 2012 29 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Bursting With Pride!

The Managerettes love you so much that they hijacked the Comment Awards this week.

carrie June 8, 2012 10 Comments
Issues LGBT History

The Unaccountable Life of Gender-Bending Rebel Charlie Brown

“This little book… is to my mind the progenitor of all funny queer blogs written in the first-person. Yes, this is the story of the first queer blogger.”

Jemima June 8, 2012 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

VIDEO: Texas Baptist Pastor Defends Obama’s Gay Marriage Position, Suggests Anti-Gays “Take A Chill Pill”

“He swore to protect and uphold the constitution, not the Bible, but the Constitution of the United States. He is not the pastor of the United States, he’s the President of the United States.”

Riese June 8, 2012 47 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Things I Read That I Love #28: Only Hellos

Today’s topics include plane crashes, cannibals, the army, Quiz Bowl, Gossip Girl, transgender children and so much more!

Riese June 8, 2012 21 Comments
Recipes

Get Baked: Peanut Noodles

Delicious summertime lunch hot or cold!

Rachel June 8, 2012 20 Comments
Society + Culture

Caiden Cowger, 14-Year-Old Radio Host, Hates Gay People and Grammar

Caiden Cowger doesn’t have a good grasp on the differences between “your” and “you’re” but he does hate gay people on the radio.

Carmen June 8, 2012 76 Comments
Issues LGBT History

Herstory Spotlight: Vita Sackville-West Wrote Words, Wooed Women, Wanted Woolf

On the lady who wrote this to Virginia Woolf – “You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defences. And I don’t really resent it.”

Sawyer June 7, 2012 42 Comments
Politics + Activism

Kyrsten Sinema Wants To Be Arizona’s First Out Bisexual Congresswoman

Kyrsten Sinema is proof not everything in Arizona politics is bad. Now if we can just get the 9th District to make her the first out bisexual on Capitol Hill.

Rose June 7, 2012 9 Comments
Politics + Activism

Edie Windsor Wins Lawsuit Against DOMA, Our Hearts

Edie Windsor successfully had DOMA declared unconstitutional by a federal court.

Rachel June 7, 2012 14 Comments
Issues LGBT History

Portraits of Lesbian Writers, 1987-1989

Robert Giard took 500 photographs of queer writers in the 80’s and 90’s. They’re pretty f*cking awesome.

Riese June 7, 2012 59 Comments
Comedy

Eight Podcasts That Aren’t This American Life

If you’ve ever wanted to give podcasts a try but didn’t know where to start, here is where you should start. By listening to me. I have opinions.

Brittani June 7, 2012 75 Comments
Community

It’s All Really Happening: Pride Month and Autostraddle Meetups!

Are you going to Pride? Want to make friends?

Rachel June 6, 2012 168 Comments
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