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TV Reviews

Marvel’s “Moon Girl and Devil Dinosaur” Has Queer Characters and Literal Black Girl Magic

Moon Girl and Devil Dinosaur has casual queer characters and voice cast that includes Isabella Gomez, Indya Moore, Asia Kate Dillon, Maya Hawke, Alison Brie, and Robin Thede!

Nic February 14, 2024 5 Comments
A collage against a pastel rainbow background of Cynthia Nixon holding her cat outside in the snow
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Cynthia Nixon and Her Pussycat Take a Snow Day

Also Kehlani’s face card never declines.

Christina Tucker February 14, 2024 1 Comment
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Breakups

Well, It Seemed Like a Pretty Good Idea at the Time

That was pre-Covid, pre-remote work. pre-‘postponed’ wedding.

Sarah DeVore February 14, 2024 2 Comments
The 'Godzilla Valentine's Day Special' #1 cover art, by Dani Pendergast and M. Smith, is in shades of black, blue, and blush pink. In one cover a sapphic couple make heart eyes with each other while Godzilla is in the background. In the second cover a brunette femme has heart shaped sunglasses and we can see Godzilla in the reflection.
LGBT Book Reviews

The Godzilla Valentine’s Day Comic Book Special Is a Sweet Sapphic Story of Love and Compromise

Written by trans lesbian comic book writer Zoe Tunnell, the Godzilla Valentine’s Day Special tells the story of Piper, a queer woman who decides to become a kaiju researcher after surviving an attack on Godzilla. It’s sapphic and gay as hell and I love it.

Latonya Pennington February 14, 2024 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Sapphic AF

What do you call a penguin in the White House?

Emet Ozar February 14, 2024 1 Comment
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Ali Krieger Just Doubled Her Dating Pool and Is Ready To Dive In

On an episode of “Kickin’ It,” Ali Krieger indicated that she’s open to dating again, and she “might be opening up to 100% of the population, not just 50.”

Riese February 13, 2024 6 Comments
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Breakups Food and Drink

Plan a Divorce Party for Your Bestie

Sure, a divorce is a rupture, but it’s also a rebirth, and I think that’s worth celebrating! We celebrate so many other life transitions: new jobs, graduations, houses… why not a divorce?

ashni February 13, 2024 1 Comment
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Book Features

Dzanc Books Announces “Be Gay, Do Crime” A Short Fiction Collection Featuring Your Queer Faves

This anthology of stories exploring chaotic queer characters breaking the law includes work from Priya Guns, Sam Cohen, our very own Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya, and more!

Drew Burnett Gregory February 13, 2024 2 Comments
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Lesbian Sex

How To Make Sexual Consent Sexy

Many people (myself included) love clear and direct communication. But not all of us lean into that style of sex. Thankfully, we can fold check-ins into sex without separating people from what they find fun.

Summer Tao February 13, 2024 2 Comments
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TV Feature

These Fictional Straight Women Should Divorce Their Husbands (And Marry Me)

“Tami Taylor put on those aviator sunglasses and I was like, girl you need me. She flipped her hair to the side and I was like, girl you need me. Her y’all drawl? Girl. You. Need. Me.”

The TV Team February 13, 2024 8 Comments
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Gender Relationships

You Need Help: You Should Divorce Your Transphobic Wife

Your wife fell in love with you and built a life with you and you’re a woman. You didn’t become a woman. You didn’t trick her into being queer — her own feelings did that.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 13, 2024 11 Comments
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Queer Fashion Style

Your Guide to Divorcee-Core Style

The vibe we’re going for here is Angela Bassett lighting her ex husband’s belongings on fire in a driveway.

Christina Tucker February 12, 2024
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Breakups

I Banished My Ex Husband With Witchcraft, and You Can Too

A four-person friend group did what anyone who’s seen The Craft might. We got together to cast a spell to banish that man.

Nico February 12, 2024 11 Comments
Divorce Week in scroll lettering is on top of a red burning fire.
Breakups

Get in Losers, We’re Getting Divorced

Divorce Week is a celebration of taking a life-changing step, of coming out the other side of devastating trauma and being all the better for it.

Carmen Phillips and Nico
February 12, 2024 14 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Cynthia Erivo’s Queer, All Wicked News Is Queer News, PREPARE TO BE SICK OF ME

I’m here for you with a very queer, very personal deep dive analysis of Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande in the Wicked trailer. Plus: Jennifer Beals in a Super Bowl commercial, Abbott Elementary renewed for a fourth season, and more!

Valerie Anne February 12, 2024 8 Comments
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Queer Pregnancy

Queer Mom Chronicles: Blending Our Family

Even though I often refer to him as my son, my wife is just as much of a parent to him as I am, and he considers her his mom.

Sa'iyda Shabazz February 12, 2024 12 Comments
Health

If Your Neurodivergent Ass Hasn’t Rediscovered Plushies, This Is Your Sign To Start

Society: hard and cold. Plush toys: soft and warm.

Summer Tao February 12, 2024 4 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Totally a Spy

Can a kangaroo jump higher than the Empire State Building?

Darby Ratliff February 12, 2024 1 Comment
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Friendship Love + Sex

I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club

I wasn’t going to turn down the chance to explore a massive swinger lodge that’s been in operation since the 1970’s.

Nico February 11, 2024 7 Comments
the following queer memoirs: How We Fight for Our Lives by Saeed Jones, How Far the Light Reaches by Sabrina Imbler, Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe, Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls by T Kira Madden, Burning Butch by R/B Mertz, High-Risk Homosexual by Edgar Gomez, Hijab Butch Blues by Lamya H, and Abandon Me by Melissa Febos
Quizzes

Quiz: What Queer Memoir Could Change Your Life?

The act of reading about the lived experiences of another person has the power to alter the course and contours of our own lives.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 11, 2024 5 Comments
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