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How To Own It: Subtle Valentine’s Day Hearts

Ways to wear hearts, gently.

Gabrielle Korn February 3, 2013 14 Comments
Society + Culture

Good News Abounds From Puppies to Parliament This Sunday Funday

The best Valentine’s Day Ever (maybe), behind-the-scenes at the Puppy Bowl, and up-close and personal with Charlize Theron’s ALH. Happy Sunday Funday!

Carmen February 3, 2013 11 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Bomb Girls 205 Recap: Them’s Fightin’ Words

This week on Bomb Girls, Betty McActuallyGerman wants to know if you are ready to rumble, and almost everyone needs to take a serious look at their lives and choices.

Kate February 2, 2013 36 Comments
First Person

Westward Homo! The Road to Columbus and St Louis (and Intern Grace!)

“We kidnapped Intern Grace on our first snowy evening and took her to the Red Roof Inn where we forced her to eat pizza and watch the 30 Rock finale with us.”

Robin February 2, 2013 30 Comments
Queer Fashion The Scene

You Should Go: Tomboy Tailors Grand Opening Party in San Francisco

Come today to the opening party of a queer owned store that caters to butch/boi lesbians, transgender males & people of any gender identity who like to don tailored menswear or tailored womenswear.

Araguaney R. Da Silva February 2, 2013 5 Comments
Geekery

What Printer Should I Buy?

All the news, tips and tricks on printers that’s fit to print.

A.E. Osworth February 2, 2013 6 Comments
First Person

Butch Please: A Butch By Any Other Name

“There are so many terms for what I am – genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, pangender, neutrois – but none of them feel quite right. So Kade takes the place of that descriptor, and Kade feels right.”

Kate February 1, 2013 54 Comments
The Scene

You Should Go: PUSSY RIOT! Book Launch in NYC

Join Justin Vivian Bond, Barbara Browning, Vivien Goldman, Karen Finley, Johanna Fateman, Eileen Myles, and Laurie Weeks as they read from the new print edition of PUSSY RIOT! A Punk Prayer for Freedom at Barnes & Noble Union Square on February 7.

Gabrielle Korn February 1, 2013 2 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Saved A Woman Like Me

In which we talk puppies, cheese-based religions and collectively gawk at Intern Grace and Gabby.

carrie February 1, 2013 8 Comments
Community

You Should Go: Queer Ladies Speed Dating At Strand Bookstore, Valentine’s Day Edition

Books. Champagne. Gabby and Katrina. Cute queer single girls. How can you say no? (You can’t. So we’ll see ya at The Strand!)

Vanessa February 1, 2013 21 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #61: White Rabbits White Rabbits

Topics include karaoke, faith-based slavery in an Angola prison, Greek politics, chronic pain, emotional abuse, Richard Pryor, The Golden Dawn, murder, fantasyland and more!

Riese February 1, 2013 14 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Recap 317: Out of the Frying Pan and Into the Lesbian Bar

This week on Pretty Little Liars some casual stalking leads one of our Liars all the way to a lesbian bar! No, for real!

Lizz February 1, 2013 32 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Real Talk About Your First Strap-On

“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”

A.E. Osworth February 1, 2013 56 Comments
Playlists

Autostraddle Commenter’s Own Most Beautiful Songs in the World Playlist is Now Streaming on Spotify

Laura’s Team Pick: You know how you know your website has really amazing readers? When one of them reads through 236 comments to compile a playlist, it’s a pretty good clue that you’ve got good people hanging around.

Laura February 1, 2013 17 Comments
Gender

Original Plumbing Needs Your Love, Support, Cold Hard Cash ASAP

Original Plumbing deserves a new website, and in the spirit of brotherhood and the revolution and Autostraddle redesign karmic juices, I’m urging you to make it happen.

Carmen February 1, 2013 4 Comments
Straddleverse

Autostraddle Calendar Girls 2014: Chloe and Intern Grace are Double Miss February

Chloe’s beauty is beyond compare, with flaming locks of auburn hair, with ivory skin and eyes of dark coffee. And Intern Grace? Well, her smile is like a breath of spring, her voice is soft like summer rain and no one can compete with her, yipee!

Robin February 1, 2013 77 Comments
First Person

A Prairie Homo Companion: Prairie Homo Catholic Contradictions

“I took a long bus ride to the “good” school where I could learn how to speak French and be Catholic, where the girls, instead of pretending to be dragons from Harry Potter, gossiped about which Backstreet Boy they’d eventually marry.”

Malaika January 31, 2013 15 Comments
Politics + Activism

“Marrying Well” Might Be Important For British Men, Is Not Necessarily Evidence of Feminism

“When asked whether their daughters thought their financial future was dependent on having a husband, only 31.9 per cent agreed. By contrast 37.7 per cent of those with sons thought having a wife would make them financially secure.”

A.E. Osworth January 31, 2013 7 Comments
Politics + Activism

We’ll Probably Win A Thing: Colorado’s Civil Unions Bill Looks Promising

Colorado’s probably going to have civil unions soon! Totally counting these chickens before they hatch; feel ok about it.

Hansen January 31, 2013 6 Comments
Culture

Here’s A Chance to Share Your Very Own Memoir With The World

I’m going to participate in The Memoir Project and of course I think you should too.

Vanessa January 31, 2013 18 Comments
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