Deplorables, Ranked
Big week for deplorables.
VIDEO: Dorian Electra’s Queer History of High Heels Features Our Own Cecelia and is EVERYTHING
The queer aesthetic here is so strong and bold and aggressive. It looks you straight in the eye turns you queer. It’s a queer gorgon. It’s queer medusa.
33 Bowl Recipes to Keep Your Belly Full and Life Easy
The bowl: an unassuming mix of a protein, veggie and grain, perhaps with some kind of sauce, quick to cook and eaten all in the same dish. (Not a smoothie bowl. Those are bullshit, sorry.)
How To Make A Cute Dopp Kit For Your Overnight Essentials
Carrying around a Whole Food’s tote stuffed with a change of undies and a toothbrush won’t last forever. You deserve better. What you really need is a Dopp kit to keep all the essentials on hand to keep you lookin’ your best for that new babe.
Countdown to Baby T. Rex: Remi is Here, Labor is Hard, and Mesh Undies Are Glorious
Welcome to the world, Remi!
Sunday Funday is Going to the Kiss-Fest, You Should Come Thru
South Africa doesn’t want this anti-gay preacher to come to town, LGBT athletes are taking over college sports, a kiss-fest in defense of lesbian love, and more good gay news!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Down
The astrological signs most and least likely to be polyamorous, going down on a vulva, false balance in sex reporting, how to live past age 100 (by having lots of sex) and more.
6 High-Quality Wireless Headphones For Different Budgets
Apple’s iPhone 7 is ditching the headphone jack. Here are some wireless headphones to pair with your sleek new technology.
Saturday Morning Cartoons: Seasons Change
“As we usher in September, change is in the air and a new season begins…”
Largest Prison Strike in US History Hopes to Expose Injustice and Suffering
Incarcerated people across the nation are striking today to disrupt the profitability of the prison-industrial complex, California might end their statue of limitations on sexual assault, Airbnb announced new policies to address racial discrimination, and more news
FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I’m Never Gonna Stop Sweating
Are you sitting in a pool of your own sweat because even though it’s September and you willed it to finally, please, for the love of everything, to just be Autumn already, it’s still averaging 90º every day? Me too! Let’s talk about it in this week’s open thread!
The Comment Awards Gets a Goal
This week we’ve got allergies, The Babysitter’s Club, throwbacks and so much more.
Things I Read That I Love #210: The New Sofa Has Nothing To Fear From Me
Topics include Flint, the framing of a PTA mom, perfume, Roger Ailes, the true crime genre, the Upright Citizens Brigade, Miss America, domestic spheres, Winona Ryder and more!
A Special Film/TV-Inspired Edition of “What I Wore: Navigating the Heteronormative Patriarchy”
This week I channel women in film/TV to navigate the comedy show, a rock concert and the sport bar.
Read A F*cking Book: M-E Girard’s Novel “Girl Mans Up” Powerfully Explores Minefields of Gender
“Girard’s writing is special in the way it speaks the language of our lived experience of moving through and within gender — inching, painfully slow, changeable, delightful, sexy, and made manifest in a thousand tiny ways, often between people and between words, unspoken.”
You’ve Got This in the Bag: Our Fave Bags and Backpack Picks for Fall
Find your next favorite bag, backpack tote or clutch in here.
Things Men Tell You When They Think You’re One of Them
“It was a predatory smile that he flashed at us, the rest of his pack, expecting us to become predators with him and start howling along.”
5 Things We Learned from the Commander in Chief Forum with Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton
Donald Trump has a secret plan!!!! What could it be???
Poly Pocket: Solo Poly Without Hierarchy
“Not leaning into change is a lot like staring at your house while it’s on fire.”
Poly Pocket: Making Relationships Up As We Go
Welcome to Poly Pocket, a new series showcasing polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships. Here’s how a married kinky butch/femme couple does poly.