• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
Reneé Rapp and Towa Bird at the Vanity Fair Oscars Party red carpet
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Reneé Rapp, Towa Bird Make Red Carpet Couple Debut at Vanity Fair Oscars Party

Reneé Rapp and Towa Bird appear to have hard launched last night.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 11, 2024 3 Comments
a woman's nude body in a bath, with her hands over her breasts, the camera icon from an iphone, a lock, and a check list
Lesbian Sex

What’s a Nudes Protocol and Why You Should Have One

A nudes protocol (or whatever you wanna call it) is a personalized framework of rules about how your digital sexual data should be handled.

Summer Tao March 11, 2024
Lily Gladstone Oscar loss: An image of Gladstone in their Oscar look with two images from Killers of the Flower Moon alongside them. Against a gold background.
Movie Features

The Problem Isn’t Lily Gladstone’s Oscar Loss — It’s What Comes Next

Lily Gladstone’s Oscar loss tells a story about where the industry is at in its judgments of art and its desire for inclusion. But it doesn’t have to be the only story told.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 11, 2024 4 Comments
A collage in shades of blue of a Black woman dancing with headphones on: a cartoon of a tootsie roll, Goofy from the Goodie Movie, M.I.A., Renee Rapp, and NSYNC
Music

Top 15 Lyrics Running Through My Mind at Any Given Time

2. Renee Rapp is everything.

Sa'iyda Shabazz March 11, 2024 1 Comment
The Autostraddle logo (AS) has been situated inside a tiny crossword grid to the left, and colorful crossword-like puzzle is to the right near a pen, all on a bright yellow background
Puzzles

Mini Crossword is a Lapsed Catholic

My pet pig lost his voice yesterday.

Kate Hawkins March 11, 2024 2 Comments
The Oscars 2024 red carpet and LGBTQ fashion: Lily Gladstone, Jodie Foster, Colman Domingo, and so many more! All collaged in front of a red background.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

All the Best and Gayest Fashion of the 2024 Oscars

I’m not sure how you like to enjoy Oscars night! But I like to order in take out while wearing Pjs and eat a pint of ice cream. The other part of my tradition is to check out what all the gays are wearing and pop off lil jokes!

Carmen Phillips March 10, 2024 1 Comment
Four different book covers, all with their color desaturated to look like blue tones, overlapping over a blue background that says 15 (for Autostraddle's 15th Birthday)
Book Lists

Top 15 Books That Gave Me Weird Ideas About Sex and Pregnancy

2. It would be some years before I got to a place where I truly believed that accidental formaldehyde poisoning was not a main concern when making my foray into my future sex and dating life.

Nico March 10, 2024 9 Comments
A collage of lesbian, bisexual, and queer characters from various Shondaland soap operas.
Quizzes

Quiz: Which Shondaland Gay Is Your Ever-Loving Soulmate?

It has been 10 months since we saw two queers smash their faces together lovingly and hornily on a Shondaland show. But this Thursday the long winter of our discontent is over! Shondaland is back, baby! And to mark the occasion, I made us a quiz.

Carmen Phillips March 10, 2024 11 Comments
Autostraddle Writers and Editors — Left to Right, Top to Bottom: Drew, Ashni, Valerie, Carmen, Riese, Valerie, Sai, and Nico
AF+

The AS Insider #108: Our Big Gay 15th Birthday

Sweet birthday baby! Today is Autostraddle’s 15th birthday, and we’re celebrating!!

The Editors March 9, 2024 4 Comments
Doubled images of Julianne Moore putting makeup on Natalie Portman
Movie Features

Todd Haynes’ Cinema of Sight

May December is a thesis statement of sorts for Haynes’ entire filmography.

Chingy Nea March 9, 2024 2 Comments
collage of alexes with "top 15" behind them a lot
TV Lists

Top 15 Queer TV Characters Named Alex

What’s in a name? When it comes to Alex, what’s in a name is homosexuality. We’ve born witness to many queer Alexes on our television screens over the years, and it’s time to celebrate 15 of them.

Riese March 9, 2024 43 Comments
The Autostraddle logo (AS) has been situated inside a tiny crossword grid to the left, and colorful crossword-like puzzle is to the right near a pen, all on the A+ lavender background
AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Crossword Ordered Extra Fries

I had an appointment to see my psychic next week, but she just called to cancel.

Darby Ratliff March 9, 2024
Drag Race 1610: A close up on Morphine with her ostrich feather purple hat
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1610 Recap: Morphine 4 President

I’m not sure I’ve ever felt less positive about the federal government or less patient for RuPaul’s sickening liberalism.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 8, 2024 2 Comments
Kate and Lucy share a kiss, in front of the slider leading out to the patio, soon after they arrive in their resort suite. Kate is on the left, wearing a leia. Lucy is holding onto Kate's upper arm to pull her closer.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: Kate and Lucy Are Pretend Newlyweds on NCIS: Hawai’i, I Love This for Us

Plus updates on the season finale of “Death and Other Details,” and the SERIES finale of “Hightown”!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
March 8, 2024 5 Comments
Fran Drescher, Tracee Ellis Ross, Lauren Graham, Sepideh Moafi, Lisa Ann Walter, and julia louis dreyfus, collaged in blue tones in front of the number 15 for Autostraddle's 15th birthday
TV Lists

Top 15 TV Mommies I Want To Be (With)

7. Yes, okay, technically Chessy is neither a TV character nor a mom, but also? I love her.

ashni March 8, 2024 5 Comments
collage of oscars films: anatomy of a fall, barbie, past lives, killer of a flower moon and poor things
Movie Features

Oscars 2024: Two Queers Discuss the Honestly Very Gay 96th Academy Awards

It’s time for our fifth annual Oscars chat and this is the best batch of films we’ve ever discussed! Join us as we journey through all the Best Picture nominees in anticipation of the 2024 Oscars ceremony.

Drew Burnett Gregory and Riese
March 8, 2024 2 Comments
The Traitors 211 cast members sit around a round table
TV Show Recaps

The Traitors 211 Recap: Finale Ends With a Fizzle

I found this finale hard to feel invested in, let alone enjoy.

Anya Richkind March 8, 2024 3 Comments
a photo of three people of varying skintones spooning each other in a row. then, there is a tear through the image, diagonally and right down the center
AF+

Did My Partner Trick Me Into a Lifetime of Sexless Monogamy?

In today’s A+ advice box: is a miscommunication over polyamory really the issue here or is your relationship simply broken and toxic? Plus; advice about feeling insecure when texting a partner and getting into being handy!

the team March 8, 2024 3 Comments
A grainy close up of Sterling K. Brown in American Fiction.
Movie Features

‘American Fiction’ Was Never About Its Satire

Despite what many reviews — and even its own PR campaign — might say, American Fiction is not very interested in white people at all.

Carmen Phillips March 8, 2024 6 Comments
The author sipping a cup of tea collaged in front of cobalt blue background that has the number 15 for Autostraddle's 15th birthday
Dating

Top 15 Questions I’ve Asked to Vet People on Dates

10. I’m a bit ashamed of this, but it’s the honest truth. I could never be with a Swiftie hater. At best, I can deal with indifference.

Em Win March 8, 2024 7 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 … 1,424 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • Baopu #76: Lost, With Directions
  • Chappell Roan Dedicates Her VMA Win to Drag Artists
  • Idol Worship: Frida Kahlo, Brutal and Vulnerable

Latest Comments

  • M College Is for Finding Yourself. ‘Overcompensating’ Knows That Process Can Be Hell "I loved this show, but I have some serious critiques 1. The author of this article does contrast Benny’s experience…"

  • Pallas Is There a Chill Way To Tell Your Girlfriend They Smell Bad? "L1: BV BV BV!!!!!!!!! IT REALLY COULD BE BV Like Riese I also am not a doctor but it sounds…"

  • Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya This Is the Best Season of ‘Hacks’ "they really are a perfect comedy duo"

  • Cleo This Is the Best Season of ‘Hacks’ "i laughed out loud soooooooo much this ep. kayla and jimmy had me rolling."

Latest Posts

  • Is There a Chill Way To Tell Your Girlfriend They Smell Bad?
  • This Is the Best Season of ‘Hacks’
  • What Is Consensual Non-Consent Kink?
  • These Queers Saw the TV Glow
  • An Explicitly Anti-Fascist, Queer TV Series Became the Best ‘Star Wars’ in Decades

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA