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Sex

“The Gift” Is Young M.A’s Gift to Lesbian Porn

Young M.A directed a porn and well, it’s porn!

Ari April 24, 2018 16 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Samantha’s Amazing Acrocats” Is About the Price of Following Your Dreams and Also Circus Cats

For a documentary about a circus cat show, the film is about so much more about the human relationships that shape us. It’s about how us strays and weirdos put the glitter eyeshadow on because we know we’re actually superstars in waiting. Also, it’s about the world’s only all-cat rock band.

KaeLyn April 24, 2018 4 Comments
Music

Avalon Young’s First Gay Song Will Make You Feel Like Falling for a Girl for the First Time Again

It’s a great time for gay music, like this sweet single about a gal loving her gal pal!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 24, 2018 3 Comments
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Sex

You Need Help: You Want to Have Sex But Also Sex Is a Lot Wow So Complicated

You and your girlfriend don’t have to have sex unless you both want to have sex, no matter how long you’ve been dating. But also if you DO wanna have sex while respecting your history of trauma, here are some tips!

KaeLyn April 24, 2018 12 Comments
Quizzes

Are You Gay or Just Happy to See Me: The Queer Code Trivia Quiz

Do you remember the first non-verbal ~thing~ that made you look at someone and realize they were probably queer? Here’s a quiz about various non-verbal (visual! written! music! etc!) ways we communicate our queerness.

Archie April 23, 2018 41 Comments
Queer Fashion

9 Lesbian Ways to Wear a Bandana

The inevitable list of ways to wear bandanas.

Ari April 23, 2018 21 Comments
Culture

Monday Roundtable: Our First Online Communities

“I also spent some time writing an intentionally awful Snape/Dobby/Giant Squid love triangle short story because sometimes you have to make your own fun.”

the team April 23, 2018 54 Comments
Movie Reviews

“We Exist: Beyond the Binary” Is a Sincere, Open Documentary About Gender

You know when you’ve heard your best friend tell a story, even though you’ve only heard it once, you’re buzzing with energy to share it with others? Lubin’s documentary feels like that.

A. Tony Jerome April 23, 2018 6 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Sliding into Taurus Season

Feminist films, feminist fonts, and ?. It’s Sunday Funday!

Ari April 22, 2018 23 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Going Outside

Neural network erotica, sex outside, DIY weed lube, how to break up with your girlfriend when you live together and more.

Ryan Yates April 22, 2018 6 Comments
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Community

Buy A Mommi Tee For Mother’s Day!

MOMMI SHIRTS FOR EVERYONE IN HONOR OF MOTHER’S DAY, BLESS LESBIAN JESUS, AMEN!

Vanessa April 21, 2018 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: Arizona Still Loves Callie, Pass It On

Gay lady TV is pulling out all the stops before it gives away to the girls of summer. Updates on: Grey’s Anatomy, Once Upon a Time, Jane the Virgin, The Good Fight, Siren, Station 19, and Coronation Street!

Heather Hogan April 21, 2018 29 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Make Up Your Own Holiday!!!

Hi, I missed you so much!

Ari April 20, 2018 55 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Wanna Be Where the People Are

Disney has a lot to answer for.

Darcy April 20, 2018 16 Comments
TV Reviews

“Scandal” Changed the Entire TV Landscape, Especially for Black Women

I think that it’s a good time to remember that before Kerry Washington’s role in Scandal there hadn’t been a black woman lead in a network television show in nearly four decades. But in the seven years since Scandal aired, there’s been a proliferation.

Natalie April 20, 2018 9 Comments
Food Lists

Munchies and a Movie: Make Your 420 “Smiley Face” Themed!

This 420, live your best life by re-living a day in the life of the main character of Smiley Face, the pot movie for those of us who aren’t men!

Ari April 20, 2018 13 Comments
Politics + Activism

Lena Waithe, Janet Mock, Emma Gonzalez and More of Your Faves Headline Time’s 2018 Most Influential People List

We’re going to ignore the straight cis white dudes on Time’s list and focus on what really matters.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 19, 2018 2 Comments
LGBT History Quizzes

Can You Name These Historic Lesbian Couples and Other Gal Pals Through the Years?

Which pair of extremely close female friends decided to “marry” each other in 1844?

Siobhan April 19, 2018 22 Comments
Breakups

You Need Help: Post-Divorce Feelings

“It’s so important to learn lessons from past loves without them negatively affecting or preventing us from being able to give our all to future loves. How to do that, though, is so difficult, and I guess is the work of being human.”

Abbie Jones April 19, 2018 7 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Episode 218 Recap: We Love a Musical Episode

Should Riverdale always be a musical? PROBABLY.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 19, 2018 22 Comments
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