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If you liked “The Idea of You” but wished it was gay, these lesbian, queer and gay novels that feature romance between a celebrity and a normal person will definitely fill that aching void in your heart.

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Netflix’s ‘Bodkin’ Should Have Let Its Lesbian Take the Lead

Siobhán Cullen is the undeniable star of the new Netflix series Bodkin. And not just because her character is a lesbian.

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‘Pretty Little Liars: Summer School’ Adds Sapphic Romance to the Worthwhile Reboot

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Chappell Roan announced four different themes for the cities in her summer tour. If you plan to dress on theme, we’ve got you covered.

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