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Gift Guide: ‘Tis (Always) the Season to Be Tomboy Femme

Because tomboy femmes tend to hang out in a gray area, we can be hard to shop for. But worry no longer! Here’s the perfect gift guide for the tomboy femmes in your life.

Hansen December 5, 2017 24 Comments
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Christmas Shopping

Holigay Gift Guide: Gadgets for Caffeine Lovers Under $30

Coffee gadgets don’t have to be expensive!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 4, 2017 10 Comments
Community

An Autostraddle Extra Feelings Roundtable: When’s The Last Time You Cried?

Tears are rain upon the blinding dust of earth or whatever.

the team December 4, 2017 93 Comments
Queer Fashion

Feelin’ Bad, Lookin’ Good: A Guide to Your Sad Queer Winter Uniform

Pieces that are easy to throw on and look good when little else is easy at all.

Nora December 4, 2017 7 Comments
TV Lists

Riverdale’s 13 Top (Gayest) Cheryl Blossom Moments

“I’m not sure if Cheryl wants to murder or make out with Josie, and that’s pretty much Cheryl Blossom in a nutshell.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 4, 2017 32 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Taking Back America One Feminist Bookstore at a Time

The 2018 gay agenda, Allison Ikley-Freeman on being the first out Oklahoma lesbian legislator, new queer feminist bookstore opens in the Heartland, an LGBT Bible app, letters from Your Holiday Mom, a queer aesthetic of Black Womanhood, and more!

KaeLyn December 3, 2017 7 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is a Winner

How to win a breakup, why queer and trans people need to be part of discussions around birth control, erotic fanfiction, a first lesbian sex story and more.

Ryan Yates December 3, 2017 4 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for December 2017

“This has been a year of intense pressure on all our intimacies — even the strongest relationships are undergoing deep transformations.”

Corina Dross December 2, 2017 12 Comments
Coming Out

Y’All Need Help #15: With a Face as Deadpan as the Aubrey Plaza Sea

Checking on your ex, being honest with coworkers, being honest with everyone including yourself, and pulling yourself out of a year-long sad thing! Come help give advice!!

Laneia December 2, 2017 27 Comments
Comedy Travel

Every Hotel Breakfast I Ate On My Cross-Country Road Trip, Ranked

This isn’t the Saturday Morning Cartoon you were expecting, but it’ll probably be better than drinking a $5 cup of coffee with powdered creamer, you know?

Riese December 2, 2017 26 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Welcome To December!

It is the first day of December and it is also my very first time hosting a Friday Open Thread on Autostraddle dot com! Come say hi please!

Vanessa December 1, 2017 91 Comments
AF+

Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #16

“Out beyond ideas of likable and unlikable comments there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.”

The Editors December 1, 2017 43 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Safe, Weird, & Rolled In Something

“I finally understand why the straights were so worried we were going to ruin marriage. Apparently, they wanted to do it themselves.”

Darcy December 1, 2017 19 Comments
Christmas Movie Features

This Is Your 25 Days of Carolmas Advent Calendar

There will always be those who lose sight of the real message of this joyous time, choosing to focus on notions and boat tickets, instead of the lessons laid forth by Our Lady of Waterloo. But not us, Dearest.

Heather Hogan December 1, 2017 27 Comments
LGBT History

BREAKING: Olivia Wyndham and Edna Thomas Are In Love and It’s F*cking Adorable

That one dance with a woman, Edna gasped, “made me know I was a homosexual.”

Riese December 1, 2017 11 Comments
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S.H.E. Episode IX: Bros on Film

“Okay, so there’s this girl…”

Megan+Moll December 1, 2017 3 Comments
Gender Music

Teddy Geiger is Trans and I’ve Never Loved a Pop Singer More

Acclaimed pop singer and songwriter Teddy Geiger came out as trans on her Instagram and Twitter.

Mey November 30, 2017 5 Comments
Autostraddle Gift Guide : Soft Butch
Christmas

Gift Guide: For the Soft Butch Who’s Hard to Shop For

“Look good and cool while going anywhere” should be the soft butch motto, probably.

Molly Priddy November 30, 2017 13 Comments
First Person

The Time I Lesbianfiltrated My Mother’s Straight Book Club

LGBTQ representation in literature is important. Also, chicken picatta is delicious.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 30, 2017 15 Comments
Recipes

Let’s Make Cheese Boards and Never Leave the House Again

We’re adults who are both hungry and special and so we deserve gorgeous cheese boards that are also very chill. Important note: this includes one vegan snack board BECAUSE I LOVE YOU.

Laneia November 30, 2017 84 Comments
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