What Embracing My Soft Life Era Really Means
Living a soft life doesn’t mean I’ll live one free from strife or pain, rather I’m living a life that invites those emotions in.
Pop Culture Fix: Elliot Page’s Queer Cheerleading Movie Is Really Happening!
Rebel Wilson is creating a queer dating app called, er, Fluid? A Hogwarts Legacy alternative for trans witches and their supporters. And more!
A+ Read a Fucking Book Club: I Keep My Exoskeletons to Myself
Join us for a Q&A with author M. Crane!
No Filter:Yes, Dylan Meyer’s Valentine’s Day Post for Kristen Stewart Is Very Sweet
Also, Kehlani making a Kim Possible reference? Hell yes.
“Sorry, Bro” Is an Ideal Bisexual Romance Novel To Read This Month
If you find yourself needing a bit of sweetness and charm in these early, dreary months of the year, Sorry, Bro is a perfect pick me up.
Mini Crossword Is Hosting Game Night
What’s a vampire’s favorite ship?
Also.Also.Also: Goodbye to Beloved Digital Magazine Catapult, Being Weird and Indie on the Internet Keeps Getting Harder
Also, exploring the history of trans witches. And Miss Puerto Rico and Miss Argentina’s love story is the focus of a new Fenty ad.
I Don’t Want To Write Beautiful Things
I am in the business of writing honestly, especially about the things that hurt — heartbreak, disappointment, shame, poverty.
Heart Whisperer: How I Found My Way to a Love That’s Lasted 45 Years
In the autumn of 1977, I met the partner of my dreams, and we’ve been sailing through life together ever since.
Interview With My Fiancé: Kristen
In which we talk for a weirdly long time about who does laundry but also Yellowjackets, why a punk cover of “Mambo Italiano” is “our song,” and our sex drives.
You Need Help: My Partner Keeps Saying We’re Going to Break Up!
The fact that you feel affected by what your partner tells you, even when they’re not their best self, is not inappropriate or bad. It’s human.
“A Darker Wilderness” Carves a Space for Blackness in Nature
I held these words close as I walked through my neighborhood in a town named after perhaps the most famous colonizer in the Americas.
Homo Reno: 13 Tips for Keeping Your 5 Year Queer Relationship Intact While Renovating the House You Live In
Sometimes you are going to have to undertake a project during which it will be inevitable that you will scream at each other. My advice is to just kind of pretend it didn’t happen.
Word Search: Queen Latifah’s Reign
A career retrospective, but make it a word search.
Queer Indigenous Musician Black Belt Eagle Scout Talks “The Land, The Water, The Sky”
If you’ve never listened to Black Belt Eagle Scout before, then 1. you should, and 2. you should be prepared for the sort of rapturous experience of listening to each song.
Pop Culture Fix: Brittney and Cherelle Griner Are the Super Bowl MVPs of Our Heart
Sarah Michelle Gellar on her Cruel Intentions lesbian kiss, Tig Notaro roasts herself after Wheel of Fortune flub, and more!
“The Last of Us” Episode 105 Recap: It Ends The Way It Ends
Ellie and Joel meet up with brothers Henry and Sam to try to escape Kansas City and the wrath of Melanie Lynskey.
Speculative Short Fiction Collection “Sweetlust” Disturbs and Delights
This is a deeply feminist work, but it’s not sanitized, commodified feminism. The feminism here is raw, living, harsh and at times, violent.
“Mother Has Lived, What Can I Say?”
DonnaSue Johnson describes herself as a “big, black, beautiful, Bohemian, bougie, Buddhist butch.”
I Don’t Care What Anyone Says, Valentine’s Day Is a Superior Holiday — And I’m Single
When I think about why Valentine’s Day is so important to me, I find it important to distinguish between self-care and radical self love.