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House & Garden

10 Crate and Barrel Finds To Level Up the Luxury of Your Dyke Domesticity

Now that I’m a seasoned dyke approaching 30, I want to own things that match the kind of person I’m growing into.

danijanae October 16, 2022 3 Comments
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Beauty

AM/PM: A Skincare Routine For The Overstressed Grad Student

Listen, you can’t disrupt academia without looking good.

Lily Alvarado October 15, 2022 10 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Wifeys Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts Sizzle On-Screen in “The Rookie: Feds”

Plus! Updates on Survivor, 9-1-1, All American, Vampire Academy, Home Economics, and Station 19!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
October 14, 2022 7 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Still Bisexual After All These Years

“Idea number 11: get your pup a bowtie and dress them up as lesbian legend Heather Hogan.”

Darcy October 14, 2022 7 Comments
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Queer Fashion

So You Want To Have Some Fall Whimsy

It’s time to bring back our romance novel slash Hallmark movie protagonists for some whimsical fall adventures!

Christina Tucker October 14, 2022 8 Comments
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TV Reviews

Tegan and Sara’s “High School” Is the Lesbian Teen Drama I’ve Been Waiting For

High School is eminently watchable, no matter how little or how much you know about actual Tegan and Sara. It’s just a damn good teen drama.

Heather Hogan October 14, 2022 9 Comments
Rachel Maddow and Melissa Etheridge laugh together while sitting close in chairs on Andy Cohen's set for "Watch What Happens Live," super imposed beneath them in block letters are the words "Do Lesbians Give a Damn"
TV Show Recaps

Melissa Etheridge and Rachel Maddow Question if We’re All OK in “Do Lesbians Give a Damn”

Rachel Maddow and Melissa Etheridge were on Andy Cohen’s “Watch What Happens Live” and he made the lesbian icons with much better things to do, rank our silly little pop culture internet lives. It’s great.

Carmen Phillips October 14, 2022 9 Comments
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Literature

These Queer Books Databases Make It Easy To Search for Your Next Favorite LGBTQ+ Read

What exactly do I mean by database? Well, I want it to be something that can be queried or filtered; it’s not just a long book list, and searching isn’t limited merely to title or author but allows you to interrogate every intersection of queer interest.

Sally October 14, 2022 17 Comments
Geekery

Seven Queer Horror Games You Should Consider Playing

To me, playing a horror game held higher stakes than watching a movie. In many scenarios, you’re literally controlling the character’s moves and choices.

Julie Gentile October 14, 2022 15 Comments
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Autostraddle Goes Outside, in Chicago and Portland!

Autostraddle and REI have teamed up for an exciting October event that you won’t want to miss.

Vanessa October 14, 2022 20 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

The L Word: Generation Q Season 3 Trailer, Chaotically Annotated

“I. Do NOT. Want. Angie’s Hoe Phase.”

The TV Team October 13, 2022 20 Comments
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First Person

Here’s Why You Should Get a Nude Portrait of Yourself Done

We deserve to feel like art, to feel wonderfully made. 

danijanae October 13, 2022 2 Comments
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TV Feature

Talking to Tegan and Sara About Becoming Characters in Their Own TV Show

“We’re still trying to make art that surprises people and this feels scary, so I think that that probably means we’re on the right track.”

Heather Hogan October 13, 2022 6 Comments
Food and Drink

11 Drinks if You Don’t Like a Negroni Sbagliato With Prosecco in It but Still Want To Be Gay

If you don’t want to order a Negroni Sbagliato with prosecco in it, there are plenty of other stunning drinks you can get your gay little hands on that also have a certain je ne sais queer about them.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 13, 2022 36 Comments
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Dating

How Growing Out My Body Hair and T4T Sex Helped Me Find Self-Acceptance

It’s not that I was no longer attracted to cisgender people — I was hoping to find parts of myself reflected in the people I dated.

Amaris October 13, 2022 5 Comments
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Theater

A Big, Black and Queer-Ass Broadway Show Is Closing, “A Strange Loop” Filled My Nerd Heart

It really is a “big, Black and queer-ass American Broadway show,” and I’m heartbroken that it won’t get to play longer.

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 12, 2022 5 Comments
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TV Feature

Chatting With Clea DuVall, Cobie Smulders, and Laura Kittrell About Tegan and Sara’s “High School” TV Show

“I think the greatest compliment that we’ve gotten was somebody in the audience at TIFF saying how happy they were to see a show that wasn’t cynical at all.”

Heather Hogan October 12, 2022 7 Comments
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Book Features Movie Features

Interview With a Tranpire

It’s not hard to see the connection that trans readers and storytellers can find in vampire media.

Nic Anstett October 12, 2022 3 Comments
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AF+

Anonymous Job Confession: My New Corporate Job Is Better Paid and Easier Than Any Job I’ve Ever Had

For most of my adult life, I’ve simultaneously held at least three jobs. Now I make more money doing one. And it’s easier!

Guest October 12, 2022 9 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Emily Ratajkowski Joins Shay Mitchell and Madonna’s Bisexual TikTok Tornado

Plus: Jessica Betts arrives to woo her wife on The Rookie: Feds, the trailer for Mythic Quest season three, thanks god Derry Girls is funny, and more!

Heather Hogan October 12, 2022 2 Comments
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