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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

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I Don’t Want My Friend To Talk About Their Partner

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Jan 23, 2026

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A+ Roundtable: Times That Bringing a Partner (or Yourself) Home for the Holigays Got Awkard

“My mom loves to do stockings with socks and chocolates and lottery tickets in it. This is perfect for me, a person who both always needs socks and to win…

the team

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Dec 20, 2022

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A+ Roundtable: What We Love and Hate About Where We Live

You can’t choose where you spawn on this planet, and you can’t always necessarily choose where you wind up living.

the team

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Dec 19, 2022

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Glitter and Glycerin: A Snow Globe Workshop Recap

Snow globe instructions and a hot D&D tip of ALL THINGS.

Nico and Laneia

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Dec 19, 2022

within a backdrop of cyber spacey designs, with a central neon sign that says "Quiz!" there are three photos collaged, one of Karine Jean-Pierre, one of Emma D'Arcy and one of Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts

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It’s The Big Queer A+ Trivia Quiz Of The Year!

50 questions, ten subjects. How well do you remember the year in queer?

Sally

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Dec 18, 2022

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A+ Crossword Is Using the Hanky Code

Because it’s important to be upfront about the sex you want, okay?

brooke

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Dec 17, 2022

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Tonight! Gen Q Watch-Along with Analyssa, Drew and Riese

Join the cast of To L and Back: Gen Q in the A+ discord as we watch and react to the latest episode of The L Word: Generation Q.

Nico

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Dec 16, 2022

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Into the A+ Advice Box #74: HOLIGAY ADVICE

Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!

the team

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Dec 16, 2022

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Our Hottest Takes About 2022 LGBTQ+ TV and Film

Today you’re getting our entire team’s spiciest takes about 2022 LGBTQ+ TV and film, something I was only able to convince people to participate in because Nico said we could…

Heather Hogan and the team

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Dec 14, 2022