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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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AF+ Mini Crossword Is a Poet

And boy does Mini Crossword know it.

Emet Ozar

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Aug 14, 2024

15 down / 3 letters / "___ vs. Carole" (film staring Kate McKinnon as Carole Baskin)

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AF+ Crossword Is Into Show Tunes

This puzzle is for you, musical theater lovers.

Kate Hawkins

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Aug 10, 2024

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I Thought The Breakup Would Make Me Feel Better — But I’ve Never Felt Worse

Just wondering if anyone else has an ex who is a good and wonderful person who they feel crazy for breaking up with? And also what kinds of plants should…

the team

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Aug 9, 2024

puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Just Loves TV So Much

Specifically, Mini Crossword is currently on a Buffy kick. This is not a spoiler, it’s just a confession.

Emet Ozar

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Aug 9, 2024

4 across / 3 letters / Genre for Megan Thee Stallion

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AF+ Mini Crossword Knows the Italian Word for ‘Handsome’

Bet you weren’t expecting a pop quiz on Italian vocabulary!

Rebecca Goldstein

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Aug 7, 2024

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I Think My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me With Her Work Wife

The knowing glances, the closeness, the fact that she’s your girlfriend’s type…??? Also, can you transition from exes to friends with a longterm gf if you’re still really mad?

the team

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Aug 2, 2024

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I Read My Girlfriend’s Diary and Now I’m Using It To My Advantage

The intel you gathered has improved your relationship, but can you come back from this sin? Plus advice for gender expansive workplace dialogue!

the team

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Jul 26, 2024

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Is My Butchness Ruining Our Relationship?

Your style is leaning more masculine these days, and compliments from your girlfriend have dried up. Also we share reading recs on the topic of gender and desire!

the team

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Jul 19, 2024