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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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sex

The Monogamous Newlyweds in Jersey City Who Might Be Open to a Threesome

Marin and Leigh are in their early thirties, don’t really wear heels (but could probably make it work), and still really love sex in a car!

Sex/Life

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May 27, 2025

4 down / 5 letters / "The Substance" actress Demi

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AF+ Crossword Is Craving Pizza Rolls For Some Reason

And also trying to enroll in French classes…?

Emet Ozar and Rachel

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May 24, 2025

One image shows a person holding a large soapy sponge, another shows two people talking secretly

sex

Is There a Chill Way To Tell Your Girlfriend They Smell Bad?

This is a touchy subject! What should you say? When should you say it? Also, how to deal with body dysmorphia on video calls.

the team

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May 23, 2025

movie features

Why Do I Define Transness By Rejection?

My trans story is no longer one of romantic rejection and yet these films are still where I project connection.

Drew Burnett Gregory

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May 22, 2025

the cast of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives

tv reviews

Dykes Discuss ‘The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’

Two lesbian “scholars” of reality television weigh in on season two of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Who’s the best villain? Who seems GAY? Let’s discuss.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Christina Tucker

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May 20, 2025

astrology, tarot & witchcraft

Queer Tarot Reading: What Summer Has in Store for Your Love Life

Plus, ever dream about cults? It might mean it’s time for you to break free of social conformity and embrace difference.

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May 19, 2025

28 across / 5 letters / HBO series starring Jean Smart and Hannah Einbinder

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AF+ Crossword Gets Snarky

Fastest solver gets a prize!

Rebecca Goldstein and Rachel

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May 17, 2025

One image shows two friends pinky promising, the next shows two people embracing romantically.

dating

Hold Up, Can My Friend Date My Ex?

She broke your heart and now she’s dating your friend and everyone says it’s 100% legal, like what the fuck. Also, we help a reader gently set some misophonia boundaries…

the team

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May 16, 2025