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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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Your friend says she’s trying her hardest to show up despite her mental illness, but you’re still frustrated. Also: how to manage lingering feelings about someone you dated during a…

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Dec 5, 2025

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It’s Time To Make a Simmer Pot

The holidays are hard for lots of folks, but I know this can be especially true for queer people, myself among them.

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Dec 1, 2025

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Is My Fiancée Wrong About Who I Can Invite To Our Wedding?

Her future wife is drawing a boundary around wedding invitations, and her ex is on the outside of it. Also: how to tell a date they have bad breath?

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Nov 28, 2025

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She Thinks We Should Leave Brooklyn for Our Kids

Will their kids be happier in the suburbs than in Brooklyn? Also, trying to keep up with a financially literate partner.

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Nov 21, 2025

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Do You Ever Dream of Places You’ve Never Been in ‘Real’ Life?

Let’s tour your Dreamworld. Also, get out your journals for some late-autumn reflection.

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Nov 17, 2025

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Should We Rescue Our Trans Niece From Her MAGA Family?

The queer aunt wonders how best to help her sister’s trans daughter. Also; advice on how to maintain your creative pursuits after moving in with your partner.

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Nov 14, 2025

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My Boss Is Withholding My Raise For The Most Annoying Reason

How can you pretend to like meetings you’re certain could’ve been an email? Also — tips for dating in a second language.

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Nov 7, 2025

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How To Perform a Cord Cutting Ceremony

The cord cutting ceremony (or ritual) aims to symbolically (and spiritually/energetically) sever the ties that bind you to someone, to something, to an idea, that does not serve your higher…

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Nov 3, 2025