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My Girlfriend Is Too Cool For Social Media
Your older girlfriend doesn’t use social media and treats your TikTok doomscrolling like it’s smoking — is she kinda right, or super wrong? Also another reader is a trans police officer and isn’t sure how to best exist in queer spaces without alienating themselves by being truthful about their job.Af+ -
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I’ve Forgiven my Girlfriend But My Friends Refuse To
You’ve forgiven your ex and she’s transformed on meds — why can’t your friends forgive her, too? Also, another reader has taken a lot of quizzes and feels like they might not be gay anymore and needs some thought exercises or journal prompts to figure it out.Af+
My Girlfriend Is Too Cool For Social Media
Your older girlfriend doesn’t use social media and treats your TikTok doomscrolling like it’s smoking — is she kinda right, or super wrong? Also another reader is a trans police officer and isn’t sure how to best exist in queer spaces without alienating themselves by being truthful about their job.
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I’ve Forgiven my Girlfriend But My Friends Refuse To
You’ve forgiven your ex and she’s transformed on meds — why can’t your friends forgive her, too? Also, another reader has taken a lot of quizzes and feels like they might not be gay anymore and needs some thought exercises or journal prompts to figure it out.
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