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Connecting, Remembering, Archiving, and Flirting at the Lesbian Lives Conference

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In a country where drag is facing regular backlash, cementing artists’ stature in the Guinness World Records makes drag’s past and present accessible not just physically but culturally.

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Drag is an artform and after a decade, nobody knows it better than Sasha Velour. The 10-year anniversary run of NightGowns kicks off tonight and runs through September 1 in NYC.

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At the 50th Invasion of the Pines, Drag Reminds Us of the Power of Self-Expression

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BABE Wine Bar Offers a Queer Wine Oasis in Brooklyn

While wine bars are a dime a dozen in Brooklyn, there isn’t a single one like BABE.

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Booters Is the Dyke Diner of My Dreams

Until Booters, I didn’t know that I could love a diner outside of New Jersey.

ashni July 28, 2025 1 Comment
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We Made a Queer and Trans Print Magazine You Can Hold in Your Gay Hands!

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