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Autostraddle Gift Guide Tomboy Femme
Christmas

Gift Guide: ‘Tis (Always) the Season to Be Tomboy Femme

Because tomboy femmes tend to hang out in a gray area, we can be hard to shop for. But worry no longer! Here’s the perfect gift guide for the tomboy femmes in your life.

Hansen December 5, 2017 24 Comments
Autostraddle Gift Guide Caffeine Lovers
Christmas Shopping

Holigay Gift Guide: Gadgets for Caffeine Lovers Under $30

Coffee gadgets don’t have to be expensive!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 4, 2017 10 Comments
Christmas Movie Features

This Is Your 25 Days of Carolmas Advent Calendar

There will always be those who lose sight of the real message of this joyous time, choosing to focus on notions and boat tickets, instead of the lessons laid forth by Our Lady of Waterloo. But not us, Dearest.

Heather Hogan December 1, 2017 27 Comments
Autostraddle Gift Guide : Soft Butch
Christmas

Gift Guide: For the Soft Butch Who’s Hard to Shop For

“Look good and cool while going anywhere” should be the soft butch motto, probably.

Molly Priddy November 30, 2017 13 Comments
Christmas

No Tree, No Problem: Bring Holiday Cheer To Your Treeless Pad

No tree? Me neither! Here’s some ideas to inject sparkle and holiday spirit into your living quarters anyway!

KaeLyn November 30, 2017 21 Comments
Christmas

Gift Guide: For The Travelin’ Queer In Your Life

A list that’s slightly more relevant to travelers like us — here, queer, in coach!

Creatrix Tiara November 29, 2017 5 Comments
Christmas Food and Drink

7 Bar Games To Make Your Holigays Merry and Bright!

Bookmark this list on your phone, send it to your friends in your group text. Be the hero who saves The Holigays! (Or at least, be the hero who kicks your party up a notch!)

Carmen Phillips November 28, 2017 8 Comments
Christmas

“Buffy, It’s Cold Outside” Is the Gayest Holiday Classic Since “Carol”

On this week’s Buffering the Vampire Slayer, Kristin Russo and Jenny Owen Youngs have rewritten the lyrics to “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” as “BUFFY, IT’S COLD OUTSIDE.”

Heather Hogan November 28, 2017 20 Comments
Christmas Crafts & DIY Projects

DIY Soy Massage Candles For The Holigays (and Beyond)

Pour hot wax on your partner! The perfect activity for chilly winter nights.

Laura Mandanas November 28, 2017 11 Comments
Christmas

You’re Throwing the Legendary Theme Party of Your Dreams (with This Guide)

“Don’t half-ass a themed party. No one will ever trust you to throw a party again.”

Vanessa November 27, 2017 22 Comments
Holigays

2017 Black Friday Deal Guide To Black Friday Deals You Can Get Without Getting Up This Black Friday Sale Day

Black Friday Wildfang! Black Friday Deals J Crew! Black Friday H&M Deals. Black Friday Shopping Deals. Wow Black Friday deals for queers right here, what a day we are all having right now, what a time to be alive, what a time to go shopping!!!!!!

Riese November 24, 2017 7 Comments
Holigays

OPEN THREAD: Your Internet Friendsgiving Extravaganza

Whether you need company today, solidarity when it comes to family, or just someone to share memes with, we’ve got you covered. Get in here!

Rachel November 23, 2017 65 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Trusting Gender Traitors Is Never Dangerous

Take your gender treachery to the next level with these gifts for watching, reading, playing, and giving.

Creatrix Tiara November 22, 2017 10 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Friendsgiving Challenge #3: Let’s Talk (Not) Turkey

You’re looking for an impressive quick-cooking, small-scale main dish that was chosen just for you by Cat Cora her very self? WELL THAT’S THIS.

Cat Cora November 21, 2017 21 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Queer Comic Book Movies and the Queer Comic Book Ladies In Them

We’ve seen a lot of canonically queer women in comic book movies lately; here’s the gift guide for those who are thrilled about that development.

Mey November 21, 2017 2 Comments
the elephant in the room
Christmas

Six Tips for Dealing with Your Difficult Family Members Over the Holidays

I’m sharing tips and techniques that have been useful to me in the face of conflict for those of you who’ll need to advocate for yourselves in difficult conversations and fight the good fight this holiday season. We can do this. Hopefully one day we won’t have to.

Reneice Charles November 21, 2017 10 Comments
Autostraddle Gift Guide Books
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: You’re Just Really Into Books

Gifts for people who are super into books that aren’t, y’know, books. And also some that are.

Ryan Yates November 21, 2017 4 Comments
Autostraddle Gift Guide 2017 / Team Picks
Christmas

Autostraddle’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2017: Everything We Want Besides World Peace and Impeachment

Find out what the entire Autostraddle Team wants for the holigays, and nab a couple of sweet gift ideas for you and your loved ones while you’re at it!

the team November 20, 2017 33 Comments
Community Holigays

The Most Wonderful Time Of Year: Holigay Meet-Up Season!

It’s the most wonderful time of year so let’s spend it with our chosen family!

Vanessa November 17, 2017 48 Comments
Recipes Thanksgiving

Friendsgiving Challenge #2: A Dessert You Can Also Eat for Breakfast

Vegetarian with allergies to nuts, coconuts, and sesame seeds? Well Julia Turshen has a delicious warm dessert (or breakfast!) for you!

Julia Turshen November 17, 2017 13 Comments
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