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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Valentine's Day

Who Do You Love: @notallgeminis x Autostraddle Do Queer Valentine’s Day Memes

Happy Valentine’s Day! We heard you like astrology memes so we teamed up with @notallgeminis and made you this gift.

Courtney Perkins February 14, 2019 26 Comments
Sex Toys Sponsored Valentine's Day

Sharing Is Caring: 10 Sex Toys Perfect for Couples This Valentine’s Day

Although you can have fun getting busy with a partner with any kind of toy you’re into, these toys designed specifically with couples in mind can leave you and your cutie feeling more satisfied than a Domino’s heart-shaped pizza this Valentine’s Day.

Rachel January 31, 2019 1 Comment
Holigays

Monday Roundtable And New Year Open Thread: Let’s Shape 2019 With Our Words

Tomorrow is a brand new year! Here are the words we’re thinking about when we think about 2019. Tell us the words you’re claiming in the new year! Tell us what you’re doing for New Year’s Eve! Tell us all your hopes and dreams! Tell us everything! We love you! Happy New Year!

the team December 31, 2018 36 Comments
Community Holigays

POST-HOLIDAY MERCH SALE: 20% Off Everything in the Autostraddle Store

Celebrate the end of #20GAYTEEN with 20% off everything in the Autostraddle store! We’re pretty sure that your happiness and our future depends on it.

Sarah December 26, 2018 6 Comments
Christmas

OPEN THREAD: Do You Need a Little Gay Christmas Right This Very Minute

I will bring the peppermint bark!

Riese December 25, 2018 99 Comments
Christmas Food and Drink

Monday Roundtable: Eggnog?

Y/N?

the team December 24, 2018 24 Comments
Holigays

Getting In Bed With Kristin: Holiday AMA

How to deal with food and body comments from your family, why you don’t need to “convince” someone to be with you, the joy and peace of taking a break from social media, and more!

Kristin December 21, 2018 1 Comment
Breakups Christmas

How to Handle Being Newly Single at the Holidays

If you’re on team single for the season and not sure how to be okay, read on, make a game plan, and know that the warm fuzzy happy holiday feelings are there for you if you want them. 

Reneice Charles December 20, 2018 9 Comments
Christmas Holigays TV Reviews

“Life-Size 2” Is a Holigay Miracle: a Bisexual Made-for-TV Christmas Movie

Shine bright, shine far! Be a star! Where you live, where you are!

Heather Hogan December 18, 2018 7 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: What Do You Get the Sex Enthusiast Who Has Everything?

So, what do you get the person that already seems to own everything? Something weird, my pals!

Archie December 14, 2018 6 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Fancy Wedding Gifts, but for Your Single Friend for the Holidays Instead

How unfair is it that everyone who gets married and has a wedding shower gets a lot of nice fancy home goods (including a KitchenAid!!!) and I, a boss bitch forever single kitchen witch Capricorn femme queen, do not??

Vanessa December 11, 2018 47 Comments
First Person Jewish Holidays

The Life We Never Knew Would Find Us: Navigating Loss as an Interfaith Queer Couple

“We’re in Lancaster County at Erin’s family’s house, surrounded by plastic Bible quiz trophies adorned with gold crosses and family portraits taken at national parks. My bewildered partner comes to me, face slack, and tells me I need to call my mother.”

J.E. Reich December 10, 2018 12 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Proof We Have the Perfect Merch for Every Kind of Gay

There’s something about closing out another long, hard year by being your very best gay self.

the team December 10, 2018 2 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: For the Overworked & Underpaid

Long days and even longer nights just trying to make ends meet? We can’t change everything but taking care of the mind, body and soul (very original) can hopefully make it a little easier. Check out these gifts to do just that!

A. Tony Jerome December 7, 2018 10 Comments
Holigays

NEW MERCH ALERT: Tees and Sweatshirts for Dramatic Dykes, Eternal Bisexuals, Non-Binary Babes and GAYS GAYS GAYS

As always, when you buy our merch, you’re directly putting money into the pockets of the Autostraddle staff, writers and contributors, SO THANK YOU FOR SHOPPING WITH US!

Sarah December 7, 2018 58 Comments
Christmas Jewish Holidays TV Lists

16 Gay Holiday TV Episodes You Can Stream Right Now!

13 Christmas and three Thanksgiving episodes full of lesbians in matching two-piece pajamas, bisexuals in endearing sweaters, and a trans woman dressed up as a literal Holigay Angel.

Carmen Phillips December 5, 2018 11 Comments
Christmas

15 Sad Christmas Songs, Ranked on a Scale of 1 to 5 Crying Therese Belivets

Holly jolly, Dearest.

Heather Hogan December 3, 2018 72 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Happy Hanukkah, Let’s Make Vegan Sufganiyot

Happy Hanukkah! Celebrate the holiday, which starts tonight at sundown, with a recipe for delicious vegan sufganiyot.

Ari December 2, 2018 25 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Mommi and Me

When in doubt: MONOGRAM.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 30, 2018 14 Comments
Christmas Crafts & DIY Projects

Be a Holigay Potion Master with These Three DIY Bottled Gifts

This series may not be Magical Drafts and Potions by Arsenius Jigger, but it’s the closest things we muggles can get. All you need is a stove, a few fancy ingredients, and some time to whip of an apothecary full of gifts.

Laura November 29, 2018 7 Comments
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