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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Thrill Me, Kill Me, Scissor Me, 69 Me, Kiss Me

People really do scissor, y’all. And 69’ing? It’s fully a thing. ‘a thing.’ Also; 100 words for/about tribadism, open relationships, and A-cup pride… and a tumblr we really, really, really like.

Riese September 5, 2010 75 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Listicle Without Commentary: Reactions to a Photograph of Rachel Maddow & Ira Glass

Ira Glass and Rachel Maddow are in a photograph together. How does that make you feel?

Riese September 4, 2010 12 Comments
LGBT History

Female Friends Forever: Looking at Adrienne Rich’s Lesbian Continuum, 30 Years Later

“If we strip lesbian feminism down to its core – to its advocacy of women-oriented female spaces, women-identified women, and an appreciation of the inequalities and violences that still permeate the heterosexual institution – we might find a lot of things worth keeping around.”

A.J. Conroy September 3, 2010 42 Comments
Straddleverse

Another Comment Award Thread, Really? Yes! It’s Hey! Did You See That Comment? Friday

Emily Choo takes over the comment awards like Google takes over your life. Except Google doesn’t give you an award that makes you feel all shiny and gay inside. (or maybe that’s next?)

Emily September 3, 2010 9 Comments
Politics + Activism

Court Foils Anti-Gays’ Prop 8 Appeal: You Can’t Make Brown & Schwarzenegger Love You If They Don’t

Surprise! An extremist right-wing group is trying to strong-arm Jerry Brown and Arnold Schwarzenegger into defending Prop 8! But nobody has stronger arms than Arnold, don’t they know that? Also: international gay news including gay adoption in Australia and your Gay Republicans update.

the team September 3, 2010 9 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

33 Seconds of GLEE, 10 Books and Oscar-Worthy Lesbian Sex in ‘Black Swan’

Glee season 2 promo in an Empire State of Mind, list of the most anticipated LGBT books for fall, Gaga covers V’s fall New York issue, Natalie Portman getting serious Oscar buzz for Black Swan, and it’s now the boys turn to exploit their fabulous gay lives on national television.

Jess September 3, 2010 9 Comments
Comedy

Crystal’s Team Pick: An Honest Lesbian Relationship

Here’s a 5-minute video featuring cartoon animals discussing the finer points of their lesbian relationship. What? Happy Friday!

Crystal September 2, 2010 11 Comments
School

It’s Hard Out Here For A Lesbian In College, So Lay Off The ‘Ethical’ Advice

Some advice columnist told a Cornell student that she’s obligated to come out to her sorority sisters because it’s “unethical” to make them “uncomfortable.” We think maybe this “advice columnist” should find a “new job.”

Rachel September 2, 2010 63 Comments
TV Lists

Beverly Hills 90210 Day: Top 8 Characters We’d Like to Fingerbang

This once-in-a-lifetime holiday is a rare opportunity to think about which ‘Beverly Hills 90210’ characters we’d like to spend the night with. DONNA MARTIN GRADUATES! DONNA MARTIN GRADUATES!

Riese September 2, 2010 16 Comments
Music

Have You Heard? Cute Indie Bands Alert!

We’ve singled out a few independent artists and bands from around the world that we think are worth keeping an eye on. Some of them look a little gay, too. Just saying.

Crystal September 2, 2010 22 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Slaughterhouse 10: Magazines We Miss, Like PASTE, Which Died Today

Life changes, people grow up, and sometimes magazines catch up with Tegan & Sara and then fold. Here’s 10 magazines we miss like runaway puppies.

Riese September 2, 2010 37 Comments
Food and Drink

In Your (Lunch) Box Office

Hey sexy, what are you doing for lunch tomorrow? We’ve put together a handy list of tips and recipes so you can take your own!

Laneia September 1, 2010 28 Comments
Society + Culture

Lesbians ‘Reflect Changes in China’ by Kissing ‘Romantically,’ Sporting ‘Boyish Fashions’

In China, “transformative change” is observed when two teenage girls, one with a “masculine hairstyle,” kissed on the subway “in an unmistakably romantic way.” Meanwhile in the US, someone’s son wants to wear a dress, someone else’s son comes out every day and pro-gay-bullying organization feels bullied. Kids these days!

Rachel September 1, 2010 14 Comments
School

Lily’s College Lesbianage #9: Back To School!

Lily is back on campus for another year of Lily’s College Lesbianage. So far she’s only had one almost-panic attack which is 700% less than last year.

Lily September 1, 2010 16 Comments
Music

Crystal’s Team Pick: A Reader & Writer’s Guide to Reading Music Writing

Writing about music can be almost as hard as reading about music. This handy little glossary from Vice Magazine is going to help us all.

Crystal September 1, 2010 3 Comments
Geekery

Gmail Priority Inbox and 5 More Googly Things You’ve Gotta Try #tipsandtricks

Google debuts Priority Inbox for Gmail, making it easier to stave off your inbox demons. But that’s not the only trick up Google’s sleeve. Check out these Googly must-try tools you might have missed along the way.

taylor August 31, 2010 34 Comments
San Francisco: A Travel Guide
Travel

Everyone Wants to Get to San Francisco: A ‘Travel Guide’

Are you going to San Francisco? We did.

Riese August 31, 2010 109 Comments
Lindsay Lohan is Back
Pop Culture Fix

Lindsay Lohan is BACK, Baby: Covers Vanity Fair, is a ‘Damn Good Actress.’

Lindsay Lohan is on the cover of Vanity Fair, lookin’ pretty rehabilitated. Jane Lynch’s acceptance speech at the Emmys, Ruby Rose is interviewed, video of Real L Word’s Tracy & Stamie reading our recap of Fashion Week and Lindsay Lohan may be nude for all of Machete.

Jess August 31, 2010 23 Comments
Book Lists

Read a F*cking Book: Fall 2010 Preview or “The Rise of the Novel”

I’m excited for the fall because of books! You should be too! THE NOVEL OF THE CENTURY! A lesbian “poet’s novel”! “Gender Outlaws” 2.0! Amy AND David Sedaris! Also, so much more!

Riese August 30, 2010 35 Comments

EXCLUSIVE! Gaga vs Mellencamp: A Preview From Haviland Stillwell’s Album

Here’s an exclusive preview of “Hurts So Good / I Like It Rough”, a Lady Gaga & John Cougar Mellancamp mashup from Haviland Stillwell’s upcoming album, How I Role.

the team August 30, 2010 12 Comments
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