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Loving Your Body in the Age of Patriarchy

“As a woman of color who does not fit into Western Eurocentric standards of what is conventionally attractive, every day I step out and love myself is an act of resistance.”

Sam September 30, 2013 25 Comments
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The Poet and the Scientist: Taking Back Sandwiches in the Midwest

The girls are cute, the beers are cold and Andrea Gibson is in town. Need we say more?

Ashley Catharine September 30, 2013 17 Comments
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Who’s Really to Blame for the Looming Government Shutdown? Sluts.

So, let’s revisit what’s about to happen because the drunk old men running the US Congress won’t budge on sluts.

Jezebel September 30, 2013 12 Comments
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Salon LGBTQ Conference: Join Autostraddle In Atlanta October 17th-19th!

Riese, Alex and Vikki will all be in Atlanta October 17th-19th for Salon LGBTQ, the world’s first national LGBTQ social media conference and you should be too!

Riese September 30, 2013 14 Comments
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5 New TV Characters I’ve Decided Are Gay

I mean, why not?

Brittani September 30, 2013 34 Comments
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Straddler On The Street: Charli

Charli is a “fat, body positive, queer/pansexual Native American girl from North Dakota” and she has a lot of things to say, especially about addiction, depression, music, and being a good person.

Vanessa September 30, 2013 26 Comments
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Ode to My Pantry: “Expired” Food

Is this okay to eat?

Kristen September 30, 2013 10 Comments
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Glee Episode 501 Recap: Love Love Love Gay Love

Welcome back to the wonderful world of Glee, where boys tongue-kiss each other at school!

Riese September 29, 2013 46 Comments
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Sunday Funday Is Gonna Get Gay Married Wherever The Hell It Wants To

Marge Simpson’s cooking up Bertolli in the kitchen while Michelle Rodriguez goes your way and the bulldog falls asleep on the sofa. In other words: shit’s perfect today.

Carmen September 29, 2013 17 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Can Spontaneously Orgasm

This week on NSFW Sunday: when your girlfriend makes you come too quickly, sex toy user interfaces, hiding things from hookups and more.

Ryan Yates September 29, 2013 13 Comments
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I Just Now Saw: Breaking Bad

You know what this show really needed was a Christmas episode or a “we’re rich now let’s buy new shoes” shopping mall montage.

Riese September 28, 2013 45 Comments
Geekery

Data After Death: A Digital Will for a Digital Age

More of our lives are lived digitally by the day, and it’s time to start thinking about what happens to all this when we die: do we want it to go to someone else, to be erased, or to remain indefinitely in the ether(net)?

Fikri September 28, 2013 7 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #94: The Stakes Are High, Why Else Would We Write?

Topics include a face transplant, Janelle Monae, business school, Jodie Foster, mattresses, the men who brought 9/11 home, letters to the editor, last meals, writing advice from Rick Bass and moar!

Riese September 27, 2013 15 Comments
Politics + Activism

New Jersey Ruling Calls for Legalizing Gay Marriage, Chris Christie Plans to Appeal Like A Total Jerk

The governor’s office plans to appeal the ruling, but activists in the state are already celebrating.

Kaitlyn September 27, 2013 7 Comments
Recipes

Wilder Hungers: Gabi. 23. NYC

“I had a dinner party at my new apartment the other night. By ‘dinner party’ I mean my girlfriend and my cousin came over and I made them scallion pancakes.”

Gabriella September 27, 2013 43 Comments
Geekery

Queered Science: Eradicating Misogyny in the Scientific Community

Dr. Ben Barres, an openly trans scientist, is on a mission to end gender discrimination in the sciences.

Vivian September 27, 2013 24 Comments
Sports

Diana Taurasi Kisses Seimone Augustus During WNBA Conference Finals Game

Just on the cheek, keep your pants on.

Brittani September 27, 2013 15 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Want To Eat You Up

Come taste the rainbow (and ice cream)!

carrie September 27, 2013 3 Comments
Politics + Activism

When Women Rape: Everything We’re Not Talking About

“The three main implications are ‘Women are too weak to harm someone,’ ‘Lesbian rape is hot and it’s harmless. It’s not real.’ and ‘All rapists are men.”

Casey Quinlan September 27, 2013 21 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Team Pick: Your Favorite Childhood Cartoon Characters Grew Up Radically Cool, Just Like You

“Unfit For Product Placement: Radicalizing the Cartoon Characters Of Our Childhoods” is my absolute favorite thing on the internet right now.

Laura Mandanas September 27, 2013 13 Comments
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