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Book Lists

Our Most Anticipated Queer Books for July 2025

Pride month may be over, but we read queer all year, and these are our top picks for new LGBTQ+ books coming out July 2025.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
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Movie Lists TV Lists

July 2025: What’s New, Gay and Streaming on Netflix, Hulu, HBO Max, Peacock and Apple TV

We’ve got new Megan Stalter comedy ‘Too Much’ stuffed with queer characters, sexy historical series Dope Girls, new seasons of Brave New Girls and Acapulco and so much more!

Riese 10 hours ago 1 Comment
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Dating

‘I’m a Thirty-Something Lesbian Worried I’ll Be Single Forever’

“And I’m a total catch! I have a great job, I own my house, I’m smart, cute, and don’t speak to any of my exes!”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya 10 hours ago 4 Comments
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Geekery

‘Daggerheart’ Is a New, Even Queerer D&D From the Team Behind ‘Critical Role’

The new game Daggerheart is designed for explicit inclusion and metaphorical representation from the top to the bottom.

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Pop Culture Fix

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Valerie Anne June 30, 2025 3 Comments
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Movie Lists

Every Queer Criterion Closet Video

It’s such a joy to watch people geek out about movies! And so I’ve gathered all the Criterion Closet videos from queer people with some thoughts on their selections.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 30, 2025 5 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

‘King of Drag’ Embodies Masculinity Icons Steve Irwin, Sylvester Stallone, and Ira Glass

I don’t mind that the show feels as much like drag king school as it does a competition. An improv game before they have to improv more seriously was nice!

Drew Burnett Gregory June 30, 2025 7 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Queer Discourse Are You?

It’s pride weekend and I hope you’re out celebrating with friends and NOT fighting with strangers on the internet. But have you ever wondered which common queer discourse is most like you?

Drew Burnett Gregory June 29, 2025 7 Comments
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Comedy

What’s a Normal Human Behavior That Gives You the Ick?

Listen, did we have a little TOO MUCH FUN ranting about our various icks? Maybe so. And now you can have some fun with us, too, delving into the various things that give us pause, squick us out, and just straight up annoy or piss us off.

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Riese June 27, 2025 1 Comment
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Movie Reviews

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Drew Burnett Gregory June 27, 2025 5 Comments
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AF+ Love + Sex

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Movie Reviews

‘Hot Milk’ Is an Imperfect Movie About Bad Mothers and Worse Lovers

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Drew Burnett Gregory June 27, 2025
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TV Reviews

Marvel’s ‘Ironheart’ Showcases the Beauty, Depth, and Breadth of the Black Experience — Including Queerness

So far, Ironheart is everything I love about the MCU when they let themselves have fun. And it’s not NOT gay.

Nic June 27, 2025 2 Comments
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TV Lists

My Favorite Deviant Queers From Television

Let’s talk about some of the deliciously deviant queer villains TV has gifted us with over the years.

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TV Show Recaps

‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’ Season 2, Episodes 6 and 7 Recap: Lies, Changeovers and Tears

Why are people lying???? on *Jenna Maroney voice* CAM-AH-RAH???????

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya June 26, 2025 13 Comments
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Movie Features

Eva Victor Didn’t Tell a Woman’s Story

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Rendy Jones June 26, 2025
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Movie Reviews

Eva Victor’s ‘Sorry, Baby’ Is an Accomplished Traumedy About Life After Assault

The most important relationship in the film isn’t between Agnes and her abuser but Agnes and her lesbian best friend.

Drew Burnett Gregory June 26, 2025 2 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’ Season 2, Episodes 4-5 Recap: Trial Marriage Time

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