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Relationships

Poly Pocket: Polyamorous In A Monogamous Relationship

Here’s how a 32-year-old Japanese American queer polyamorous Southern Californian does polyamory within functional monogamy.

Ryan Yates December 15, 2016 9 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Boobs! Flaunt ‘Em Cause You Got Em! And Also Butts!

So everyone can celebrate whatever myriad ways boobs are present in their lives this holiday season.

Raquel December 14, 2016 11 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Girls Like Girls Like Dyke Drama on ANTM, Too, Nothing New (And Other Stories)

Topics include Kyle McCoy and the lack of plus-size models on America’s Next Top Model, the Golden Globes, Hayley Kiyoko finding her voice and lovin’ ladies, a webseries featuring a “a strong-ass gay girl,” Embracing The Ironic Performance of Misandry and like a billion other things that’ll just really ice your cake.

Riese December 14, 2016 15 Comments
Holigays

Everyone is Gay’s New Care Package Puts the Ho Ho Homo Back in the Holidays

It’s like cookies and cocoa with your coolest queer friend, but free and available for download right now.

Carrie December 14, 2016 7 Comments
Geekery

Our Lives By the Numbers: How Data Is Used to Track LGBT Social Progress

In the past week, two standout reports have been released: Unerased by Mic, and the 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey by the National Center for Transgender Equality.

Laura Mandanas December 14, 2016 12 Comments
Music

Brittani Nichols Likes You And She’s Proving It With Her New EP

Brittani Nichols Likes You is the thing about Brittani Nichols. It’s sexy and it’s funny and it’s real and it’s raw and it’s further proof that she can do anything she wants to do.

Heather Hogan December 14, 2016 3 Comments
Straddleverse

Autostraddle Holiday Merch: New Stuff, Thrilling Markdowns, Queer Wrapping Paper, Get It Now!

We’ve got huge markdowns on classic merch, so much new merch, AND you can get three rolls of Queer Wrapping Paper for $1 each with ANY PURCHASE in the store. Order by Friday to get your merch in time for the holidays!

Sarah December 14, 2016 10 Comments
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Oh Hey! It’s Alyssa #11: Talking To Kids

Homo/transphobic society asks the same overdramatic question as ableist society.

A. Andrews December 14, 2016 10 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

BREAKING: Kristen Stewart Spotted Walking Next To Stella Maxwell, Ring The Alarm

Whenever famous women are seen walking next to each other, it means they are dating. I don’t make the rules.

Stef December 14, 2016 30 Comments
TV Reviews

Indian Web Series “The Other Love Story” Gives Queer Women A Happy Ending

“The Other Love Story was such a breath of fresh air in many ways. Aadya and Aachal felt like any other regular person: they were not coded Butch or Femme, like too many of these stories tend to do, and neither were overly Westernized nor overly exotified. They just were.”

Creatrix Tiara December 14, 2016 12 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Danielle Brooks Remains Optimistic

Also, Kaki King met a feminist icon, Cara Delevingne went to Santa Con and Gabby Rivera busted out the holiday sweaters.

Stef December 14, 2016 2 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Bottoms Up: Holistic Masochism

“Holistic masochism recognizes that I’m not just a sex machine, but a whole person who has to exist before and after play.”

Ari December 13, 2016 9 Comments
Geekery

Relevant To Your Interests: The Twelve Days of Nerdsmas

Here are the twelve nerdiest Christmas ornaments I can find.

A.E. Osworth December 13, 2016 7 Comments
Politics + Activism

From Russia With Lies: Electors, Senators and the CIA Say We Need Answers on Russia’s Election Involvement

The CIA has released a report saying that Russia attempted to influence the US election in Trump’s favor — here’s what senators and the electoral college are doing in response.

Rachel December 13, 2016 20 Comments
Book Features

Monstering Magazine Turns Our Pain as Disabled Women and Nonbinary People Into Power

Monstering is the first ever magazine for disabled women and nonbinary people — and if that’s you, they want to see your work!

Carrie December 13, 2016 10 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Jael From America’s Next Top Model Is Sober, Reflective, Also A Lesbian Apparently

ANTM contestants Jael Strauss and Renee Alway have been in the closet all this time, says Jael.

Stef December 13, 2016 2 Comments
Holigays

Drawn to Comics: Queer and Trans Women and Nonbinary Creators To Support This Holigay Season

I do this list every year around this time, but this year it might be more important than ever. With the election of Trump and Pence and a Republican Congress, LGBTQ people and women are targets in a way we haven’t been for a while, and we’ve been a pretty big target for a long time.

Mey December 13, 2016 7 Comments
Christmas Playlists

PLAYLIST: 30 Covers of The Greatest Christmas Song Ever

You already know what this is gonna be, don’t you?

Ari December 12, 2016 11 Comments
Christmas

20 Foods to Gift This Holiday Season

People would love to thank you for these delicious gifts but their mouths are full right now, sorry.

Ari December 12, 2016 6 Comments
Music

Gaby Dunn And Allison Raskin Star In Satchmode’s Extremely Gay New Video For “Happiness Pt. 1”

If you’re into Very Famous Millennials and angsty lesbian drama (and you are, or else you wouldn’t be on this website), today is the day you’ve been waiting for.

Stef December 12, 2016 5 Comments
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