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Relationships

Poly Pocket: The Communication Cushion

Here’s how a 28-year-old Arab-American queer demisexual cis woman living in the urban Midwest does ethical non-monogamy.

Ryan Yates February 23, 2017 3 Comments
Comedy

There Are Too Many Websites: More Internet Haikus

This round we cover net neutrality, Y2K, away messages, left swipes made too soon, and astropoets.

Erin February 23, 2017 7 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Carol Aird Performs “You Don’t Own Me” at the Stonewall Inn

Roxane Gay is not here for your stupidity about Milo, the WNBA is not here for Candice Wiggins’ cry of reverse-homophobia, this new movie from Kristen Stewart looks good (but not as good as Totino), Hillary and Kate redux, and yes: Cate Blanchett at Stonewall.

Heather Hogan February 22, 2017 23 Comments
Gender Politics + Activism

Why the ACLU’s #IPeeWithLGBT Campaign Erases the T

While any and all support for the trans community is necessary and welcome, the ACLU is missing the mark with this hashtag. The big swing and miss for me is the fact that SB6 is an anti-trans bill that specifically aims to single out trans feminine individuals, regardless of sexual orientation.

Polly Anna Rocha February 22, 2017 38 Comments
TV Show Recaps

The Fosters Episode 414 Recap: Degrassi Overload

Hey, let’s add a little dash of teen pregnancy to this overstuffed season of teenage dramatics.

Lucy Hallowell February 22, 2017 22 Comments
Theater

Queer Artist Kelly Bartnik Blurs the Line Between Performer and Person in HERE

Queer triple threat performer, director, and visionary Kelly Bartnik is mixing the episodic TV show format with live immersive theater performance and you can see it this weekend!

KaeLyn February 22, 2017 2 Comments
Politics + Activism

Clinging to Naomi: Reclaiming My Faith as Republicans Continue to Weaponize Christianity

As homophobic Christians dominate more of the national discourse, and as Religious Freedom acts of various permutations strip rights from queer and trans people across the U.S., reclaiming the Gospel has begun to feel urgent.

Adrian February 22, 2017 23 Comments
BOSTON, MA USA - FEBRUARY 19, 2017: Protesters hold up signs at the Stand Up for Science Rally in Copley Square Boston. Via Shutterstock.
Geekery

Notes from a Queer Engineer: Science Has Always Been Political

The danger of talking about science as a series of value-neutral truths is that it obscures the human decision making that took place at every stage along the way, as institutions were built up. It implies that the biases held by those decision makers are shared by everyone, and are therefore insignificant.

Laura Mandanas February 22, 2017 31 Comments
Webcomics

Oh Hey! It’s Alyssa #16: The Gelders (Part One)

“One of the most rewarding/amazing jobs I ever had was working with LGBTA-identified elders.”

A. Andrews February 22, 2017 20 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Ellen Page’s Completely Normal-Sized Birthday

Does Brittani Nichols smell great? Does Kristen Stewart smell terrible? There’s only one way to find out, really.

Stef February 22, 2017 31 Comments
First Person Issues

Shoulder Pads and Short Cuts: How Grace Jones Made Me Powerful

A love letter to the only woman that stole my heart and snatched my scalp at the same damn time.

Jasmine Reign February 21, 2017 11 Comments
Alex looks guilty
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 213 Recap: Conversation Hearts

It’s Alex’s first Lesbian Valentine’s Day!

Valerie Anne February 21, 2017 77 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Abby Wambach Is Getting Married Again as Hope Springs Eternal Even on the Darkest Timeline

Abby Wambach and Glennon Doyle Melton have decided to hold hands forever.

Heather Hogan February 21, 2017 22 Comments
Culture

Check Out Collectively Speaking, Enhancing QPOC Visibility On Their Own Terms

QTPOC-centered podcast, YouTube channel, and website Collectively Speaking launches today! Support QTPOC media!

Ari February 21, 2017 12 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Trans Cartoonist Julia Kaye Makes Cute Comics With Real Life Punch

Even when the realities of being a trans woman get her down, she’s able to look at the positive side of life and hope things will one day be better.

Mey February 21, 2017 4 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: About Last Night

“I guess I had a lot of opinions that night because you told me that I was especially chatty. I told you it was because you weren’t giving me anything to keep my mouth busy.”

Ari February 21, 2017 30 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read A F*cking Book: “In Full Velvet,” by Jenny Johnson

Immerse yourself in these poems and prepare to come out raw and clean.

Adrian February 21, 2017 2 Comments
Politics + Activism

15 Dubious Fictional Presidents Who Are Still Better Presidents Than Donald Trump

Yes I would prefer a duck or a cannibal, thank you

Riese February 20, 2017 61 Comments
AF+

VIDEO! Getting in Bed with Kristin #5: Heartbreak with Special Guest Allison Weiss!

I got into bed with musician Allison Weiss last week to give advice on all-things-heartbreak (trusting again, healing, and putting your phone down when alllll you want to do is send that text…). Take THAT, Valentine’s Day.

Kristin February 20, 2017 1 Comment
Camp

A-Camp Spring 2017: We’ve Got Six Full Camperships for Trans Women To Give Away

I’m freaking serious, this is so worth it: we’ve got one full campership for a trans woman of color with full travel included, one campership for a trans woman without travel and four camperships for trans women of color with a $100 travel stipend.

Mey February 20, 2017 7 Comments
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