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Comedy

Team Pick: “Dad Bingo,” A Bingo Game Invented By Rachel For Her Dad’s Upcoming Visit

“IS RUDE AND/OR DEHUMANIZING TO SOMEONE IN THE SERVICE INDUSTRY” (What would you put on your Mom and/or Dad Bingo card?)

Riese August 27, 2013 69 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Orange is the New Black 113: Holy Lesbian Spit Chain Batman!

Ever been punched in a tit before? That crushing pain in your areola and the dense tissue of the breast? Brutal. I’ll take dental surgery over titty punches any day.

Kate August 27, 2013 55 Comments
Geekery

Magical Girls, Heroines and Anime Amazons: Field Notes from Otakon 2013

The East Coast’s largest anime convention had everything an anime fan could want, including some interesting conversations about representation of women in anime.

Rose August 27, 2013 28 Comments
Community

BUTCH Voices 2013: Butch Gets a Press Pass

Every two years the butches of the world convene to absorb each other’s butch powers.

bcw August 27, 2013 22 Comments
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Get Ready For And Dream About A-Camp With Robin At Picnic Day In LA

We’re hosting the very first A-Camp Prep event in Los Angeles! Come hang out with Robin on September 8th and start getting excited for A-Camp or just learn more about it!

Vanessa August 27, 2013 9 Comments
Politics + Activism

Survey Says: Gay is Still Not Okay in Singapore, Won’t Be Any Time Soon

A national survey using homophobic language yields homophobic results: 47% of Singaporeans “reject gay lifestyles.” What does this mean and why is it important?

Fikri August 27, 2013 22 Comments
Book Features

Idol Worship: Ten(ish) Questions About Dogs and Books with Ali Liebgott

This edition is FULL OF TREASURES. Ali and I read two books and asked ten(ish) questions to poet, writer, and die-hard dyke Ali Liebegott for you. Also, many dog photos!

Carmen August 27, 2013 5 Comments
Community

The Poet and the Scientist: The Smallest State, Upstate, and Our Mental State

Of course our trip to Boston wasn’t complete until we found MORE STRADDLERS!

Ashley Catharine August 26, 2013 18 Comments
LGBT History

More Than Words: Pronouns Pt. 3 – They Said/Ze Said

The grammatical is political.

Cara August 26, 2013 25 Comments
Music

Team Pick: Mary Lambert’s “She Keeps Me Warm” Video Is So Queer And So Cute

Mary Lambert’s video for “She Keeps Me Warm” stars two queer women and was produced by an all queer, female crew. Plus: handholding in the backseat of a cab!

Vanessa August 26, 2013 66 Comments
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Autostraddle Makes Refinery29’s “24 Best Websites For Women”

Refinery29 wasn’t thrilled with Forbes’ list of the top 100 websites for women (and really, who was?) so they decided to compile a list of their own. We’re proud to say we made the cut!

Vanessa August 26, 2013 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Two Trans* Women of Color Murdered Within a Week; Anti-TWOC Violence Claims Even More Lives

Islan Nettles and Domonique Newburn, two African-American trans* women, were brutally murdered within a week of each other. This is just the latest in a trend of horrific violence against trans* women of color.

Mey August 26, 2013 14 Comments
Community

Straddler On The Street: Monique

Monique talks about being Mexican and queer in Arizona, her favorite artists, and her adorable dog Elliot (who is an extremely well-behaved road trip travel companion.)

Vanessa August 26, 2013 19 Comments
Recipes

Ode to My Pantry: Meat Cake

Meat. Cake. I really can’t be any clearer than that.

Kristen August 26, 2013 32 Comments
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MTV Video Music Awards 2013 Liveblog and Open Thread

I’ma let you finish, but Autostraddle had one of the best MTV VMA liveblogs of all time! Of all time!

Lizz August 25, 2013 62 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Sunbathing In Her Skivvies

This week on NSFW Sunday: being happy naked, types of relationships, activism in BDSM, 18 vulvas, sex and aging, and more.

Ryan Yates August 25, 2013 7 Comments
Society + Culture

A Million Gays Here, A Million There This Sunday Funday

Neko Case, cuddly beavers, and a whole lotta love.

Carmen August 25, 2013 5 Comments
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55 Ways To Leave Your Lesbian Vampire Lover (According To True Blood)

Sometimes it feels like every single person in Bon Temps is constantly going through the worst lesbian breakup of all time.

Vanessa August 25, 2013 35 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Recap 411: Going Down on the Hoe

This week in Rosewood, Emily and Paige queer a hoedown! That’s right, it’s girls dancing together in plaid and cowboy boots!

Lizz August 25, 2013 19 Comments
First Person

This One Time At Queer Writing Camp: All About the 2013 Lambda Literary Retreat

What I learned from a week on a hilltop with 50 queer writers.

SJ Sindu August 24, 2013 15 Comments
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