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You Need Help: Your Girlfriend Wants to Date Other People and It’s Breaking Your Heart

Your girlfriend wants an open relationship and you agreed to it, but now you feel terrible all the time. What to do?

Rachel February 23, 2015 73 Comments
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A-Camp Spring 2015: We’ve Got A Campership WITH TRAVEL For You!

An amazing anonymous donor is giving away a campership WITH TRAVEL to a camper in need, including overseas campers! Get in here and make your dream come true!

Riese February 23, 2015 18 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Do You Want Your Kid to Be Gay, Too? And Other Stories We Missed

Doulas aren’t just for rich white folks, Ruth Bader Ginsburg isn’t going anywhere, where are all the women hermits, even more on the Google View-Master because I’m obsessed, plus other cool neat rad stories you’ll appreciate on some level!

Laneia February 23, 2015 32 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue Eight, February 2015

“I’m just imagining Alex on a rock wall and Rachel snuggling a cat or something.”

the team February 23, 2015 76 Comments
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35 Recipes to Help You Get Lucky at the Potluck

Make your next potluck contribution the belle (bowl?) of the ball.

the team February 23, 2015 10 Comments
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2015 Oscars Liveblog and Open Thread

Pull up a chair, pour yourself a whiskey, and let’s talk about the whitest Oscars in decades.

Heather Hogan February 22, 2015 106 Comments
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Pretty Little Liars Episode 520 Recap: Nobody Puts Hanna In The Corner

Emily meets her girlfriend’s husband, and Hanna dances like she’s possessed by the Holy Ghost.

Heather Hogan February 22, 2015 68 Comments
Food and Drink

Sunday Top Ten: Heartwarming Midwestern and Southern Restaurant Chains I Miss

Nobody does breakfast like Bob Evans.

Riese February 22, 2015 104 Comments
Society + Culture

It’s Sunday Funday, I’m Voting for Ellen Degeneres, and Larry’s Not Coming Back to OITNB

Also, a Cruella De Vil reference for the ages! And animals cuddling other animals! AND DID I MENTION LARRY ISN’T COMING BACK TO OITNB.

Carmen February 22, 2015 11 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Ready To Run

Safety and BDSM, many 50 Shades feelings, sex advice from the Notorious RBG, coming out like a porn star and more.

Ryan Yates February 22, 2015 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

HUD Instructs Homeless Shelters to Treat Trans People Equally

The federal housing authority is directing its assistance programs to respect clients’ gender identities, prioritizing their safety in single-sex shelters.

Kaitlyn February 21, 2015 12 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Grey’s Anatomy Episode 1112 Recap: This Is Her Song, So Get Off The Stage And Let Her Sing It

Arizona and Callie smile for the first time in ages, while Bailey teaches her husband how to act when a family member comes out as trans.

Jenn February 21, 2015 30 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Baopu #5

Winter in The City

Yao Xiao February 21, 2015 6 Comments
Society + Culture

White Coats And Closets: LGBTQ Medical Students Frequently Fear Coming Out

A new study from Stanford researchers shows that 30% of medical students are not open about their sexual orientation and/or gender identity, mostly due to fear of discrimination.

Mari Brighe February 20, 2015 53 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Still Feeling The Love

GalPalentine’s Day may be over but our hearts are still full.

carrie February 20, 2015 8 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #167: The Dark Fruits Of The Life I Had Chosen

Topics include showbiz seniors, independent Black American film-making, genetic sexual attraction, prostitution in Germany and so much more! Also an essay by the late David Carr.

Riese February 20, 2015 9 Comments
TV Lists

12 SNL Women I’d Like To Co-Parent a Kitten With

“I want her to protect me from the evil of the Patriarchy. We could be happy together.”

Linda February 20, 2015 17 Comments
TV Feature

Fan Fiction Friday: 8 Lesbian Wedding Stories on Brittany and Santana’s Big Day!

Let us put you in the mood to swoon with these sweet and syrupy femslash wedding fics.

Heather Hogan February 20, 2015 12 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: How Do You Deal With Being Sleepless in Seattle?

This week we’re talking about how we chill out and/or drift off. Get in here and share!

Rachel February 20, 2015 132 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Grey’s Anatomy Episodes 1109-1111: Are We Out Of The Woods Yet?

Callie and Arizona try to move on without each other. Obviously it only takes Callie three seconds to make another woman fall in love with her.

Jenn February 20, 2015 27 Comments
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