Into the A+ Advice Box #21: Crushing on Your (Probably) Straight Friend, and More!

Welcome to the 21st edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer advice questions from A+ members who submitted their questions into our A+ ask box because they wanted their questions answered in a space that is not accessible by Google, their mom, their ex, etc. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Previously, we have included such questions in our epic Some Answers to Some Questions You Have Been Asking Us, and in most cases that is still the plan. But some questions were a lot longer or more in-depth and deserved their own place in the sun. We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.

We solicited answers from the whole team, so let’s dive in!

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I recently started squirting, and at first it was fun and exciting, but I've gotten self-conscious about it! It's messy and unpredictable and every time it happens, it feels like the volume increases. Is it possible to control squirting, so I don't have to prepare for the mess every time I have sex? Alternatively, ...

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