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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

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Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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So you want to have sex more often but there’s some things getting in the way. Also — should you leave your beloved community for an exciting job opportunity?

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I Don’t Want My Friend To Talk About Their Partner

How can I get my friend to stop talking to me about their partner who I hate? Also; how to manage real people in fictional stories.

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Why Am I So Put Off By My Friend’s Constant Asks For Financial Help?

A reader’s being driven up the wall by her friend’s money asks on social media. Also; how to handle ticket money in a friendship with an ex.

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Jan 16, 2026

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Queer Dream Interpretation: What Do ‘Gross’ Dreams Mean?

Tell me a little about you. What are your new year’s resolutions? Did you make it through okay?

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Should you try to get really good at rock climbing to make a relationship work? Also — is it okay to keep your body count a secret?

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Jan 9, 2026

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Help Me Lord I Can’t Afford All These Weddings

What are the rules for plus ones contributing to wedding expenses? Also — is there any point in confessing your feelings to a long-distance crush?

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What happens if you literally can’t afford to break up? Also; a reader is very stressed about her brother’s A.I girlfriend — and her parent’s approval of it.

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