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Trick or Treat Yourself: 8 All-Black Sex Toys for Your Spooky Season

‘Tis the season for black bats, black cats, and maybe a few adventures designed to give you goosebumps. Enjoy these all black everything offerings from Eve’s and let them keep you up through the witching hour and beyond!

Rachel October 22, 2019 7 Comments
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With “Bury the Lede,” Gaby Dunn Reshapes the Modern Thriller

“Bury the Lede” follows the familiar, even classic format that makes a hard-boiled detective story work, but Dunn takes that wireframe and expands upon it to make something unique.

Lisa A.C. Ryan October 22, 2019 2 Comments
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Gal Pals Without Benefits: Why Does Kissing Your Bestie Get You Killed in Horror Movies?

Using Barbara Creed’s ‘The Monstrous Feminine’ as a guide, I take you on a journey of exploration and analysis across the lethal lesbian kisses of horror history.

Raid October 22, 2019 3 Comments
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PHOTOESSAY: K. Flay Performs at Brooklyn Steel on her ‘Solutions’ Tour

A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to photograph Flay’s show in Brooklyn, and – I don’t say this lightly – it was one of the best concerts I’ve been to this year.

Erica Snyder October 22, 2019 2 Comments
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Monsters & Mommis: “Memento Mori” Asks Us to Remember the Dead

This is a ghost story. This is a horror movie. This is two decades of queer lives free to live.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 22, 2019 4 Comments
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“Batwoman” Boldly Goes Where Few TV Shows Have Gone Before — Into a Gay Lady Love Triangle!

“Down Down Down” introduces Reagan, a bartender who neither melts under Ruby Rose’s intense smolder nor is shaken from her single-minded pursuit of asking out Kate Kane by the fact of three entire elevators plummeting to the ground in the building where she’s working a party.

Heather Hogan October 21, 2019 14 Comments
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A Weaver of Unique Variety: The Magic and Legacy of Debbie Friedman

In her life, Debbie Friedman did not want to be defined by her sexuality, but there’s something that feels queer about her music. The hidden history, the lyrics about liberation and joy, and, yes, a whole lot about women dancing with timbrels.

Lindsay Eanet October 21, 2019 9 Comments
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“Supergirl” Episode 503 Recap: The Girl with the Spider Tattoo

Alex is worried about Kelly with this shapeshifter on the loose and Kara does favor upon favor for Lena.

Valerie Anne October 21, 2019 24 Comments
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Some Covers of Some Lesbian Sci-Fi Books

When I made a pledge to myself a few years back to only read sci-fi books by or about queer people, I wondered whether the cover art would be subtly queered in the process. The answer, in many cases, was no: it was queered to the absolute max.

Sally October 21, 2019 47 Comments
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A God That Makes Sense to Me: On Bisexuality & Purity Culture

I wanted to be whole, pure, the person I was supposed to be. I wanted to be good enough that my sexuality wouldn’t matter.

meg October 21, 2019 40 Comments
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“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 213: Lacuna

Gloria Steinem joins the lesbians for the season finale, in which there is death, but also life, and also people whispering the names of L Word characters while those characters are sexually engaged with one another.

Riese October 21, 2019 9 Comments
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Sunday Funday and Noname are Saging Your Playlists

Noname’s got new music, Brittany Howard sings to a girl named Georgia in her new Tiny Desk concert, Kellogg cereal said “gay rights!!!” and more! Happy Sunday!

Ari October 20, 2019 8 Comments
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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Watching Scary Movies

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Ryan Yates October 20, 2019 1 Comment
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Some Things: Pieces

There’s an instinct when you move somewhere, I think, to carry with you an idea of home.

Cameron October 19, 2019 14 Comments
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Boobs on Your Tube: “Almost Family” Is Heating Up!

Plus updates on: 911, How to Get Away with Murder, American Horror Story, the season finale of Why Women Kill, and new gays to look out for on Nancy Drew!

The TV Team October 18, 2019 8 Comments
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The Letter I Wrote To My Mother Asking For A Puppy In Second Grade, Annotated

Part-poem, part heartfelt plea, this letter proves I have always been a bad liar.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 18, 2019 17 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Saving Gotham City One Flannel At A Time

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Darcy October 18, 2019 14 Comments
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Two Spooky Playlists For ALL Your Gay Halloween Music Needs

Some people just want a nice casual playlist for their Halloween party! So, I decided to split all of the song spooky suggestions into two playlists.

Abbie Jones October 18, 2019 35 Comments
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“Orphan Black: The Next Chapter” has New Mysteries, New Clones and Possibly a New Queer Character

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Valerie Anne October 18, 2019 10 Comments
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“Riverdale” Episode 402 Recap: Friendships and Queer Loneliness

The failures of family, the joys of friendship, and a nonsensical but incredible musical number—just another day in Riverdale!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 17, 2019 3 Comments
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