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Movie Reviews

Queer Slasher ‘Influencers’ Is ‘Scream’ Meets ‘Killing Eve’

A biting social commentary slasher franchise more perceptive in its critique of digital social media culture than anything else within the horror landscape right now

Rendy Jones 17 hours ago 1 Comment
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Relationships

‘How Do I Cope With Uncertainty and Lack of Control in My Dating Life?’

“At 28 years old, none of my relationships have ever lasted to a year.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya 19 hours ago 3 Comments
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Meet the Women’s Hockey Players With an IRL ‘Heated Rivalry’ of Their Own

The steamy gay hockey romance Heated Rivalry on HBO Max has the internet abuzz, but have you heard of the real life hockey lesbians who went from rivals to wives?

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AF+ Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

A Queer Guide To Setting New Year Intentions

Plus: What do doors in dreams mean? And a mini gift guide from your favorite queer Cowboy!

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Movie Reviews

Queer and Trans Western ‘The Mysterious Gaze of the Flamingo’ Looks at Power of Looking

The Mysterious Gaze of the Flamingo, Chilean newcomer Diego Céspedes’ debut feature and Chile’s submission for this year’s Best International Film at the Academy Awards, takes the question of queer looking as its central allegorical focus.

Payton McCarty-Simas December 15, 2025
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Christmas Quizzes

Quiz: Which Lesbian Christmas Movie Are You?

Did you leave your gloves at Frankenbergs? Are you clinging to your favorite spruce tree? Are you warming up for the big Christmas cook-off? Find out which Sapphic Christmas movie you are in here, right now.

Riese December 14, 2025 10 Comments
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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #343: Cinnabon, Food Delivery, Lost Vegas, Chat GPT Divorce, Etc

Dying in a hospital town, the horrors of being 44, the legend and the glory of Cinnabon, the airport lounge wars, Chat GPT destroying relationships, delivery’s impact on restaurants and, believe it or not, so much more.

Riese December 13, 2025 5 Comments
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AF+ Relationships

I Feel Weird About My Wife Hiring a Sex Worker

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TV Show Recaps

Pluribus Episode 7 Recap: Resistance Requires Risk

Manousos Oviedo wishes to save the world.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 12, 2025 35 Comments
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LGBT History Money + Work

A Short History of the ‘Nonbinary Barista’

It’s an open secret that gay people make the best coffee. 

Keira Mac Neill December 12, 2025 2 Comments
Straddleverse

You’ve Gotta Get Your Hands on the Second Issue of Our Queer Print Magazine

This season’s hottest holiday gift — for yourself or the best queers you know — is queer media you can hold in your hands, and keep forever, no matter what happens.

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Movie Features

In Time-Honored Musical Theater Tradition, Almost Everyone in the ‘Wicked’ Movie Is Gay

Who all’s gay in the Wicked cast? Turns out, a lot of them!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 11, 2025 15 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

A New Bisexual Has Entered the Bravosphere

Audrey Lingle of the new Vanderpump Rules reboot says she has dated women and men.

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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: I’m 0% Surprised Robby Hoffman Is a Sagittarius

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Christina Tucker December 10, 2025
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Book Features

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“I will read or watch any pirate story, but I have strong opinions about them.”

Rendy Jones December 10, 2025 5 Comments
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Relationships

‘I Can’t Stop Obsessing Over My Girlfriend’s Ex-Girlfriend’

“Recently, I’ve found myself looking her ex’s profile or looking at old pictures of them on my girlfriend’s Instagram multiple times a day. I zoom in on the pictures & take in every detail, even going so far as to note how she does her makeup and attempting to replicate it sometimes.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 9, 2025 1 Comment
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Book Lists

Our Most Anticipated Queer Books for December 2025

There’s lots of new queer history and nonfiction coming your way this month, plus other picks across every genre!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
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First Person

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Over and over again, we practice evasion. Ducking. Blocking. Parrying. Weaving. Running.

Gina Paris Ellis Marks December 9, 2025 4 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Tig Notaro Is Giving Us Some Hot Lesbian Action

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Valerie Anne December 8, 2025 1 Comment
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Politics + Activism

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