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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Nihilistic Slut

85% of queers met their partners by being friends first, how to slow date, how to hide nudes on your phone and more.

Ryan Yates July 18, 2021 4 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #88: The Poster Child of Anxiety

When words sometimes complicates things even further, only a surrealist picture can sum up the weirdness of social anxiety.

Yao Xiao July 17, 2021 1 Comment
Victoria talks to Honeybear and Ash who are next to each other on a yellow couch
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: Betty’s Queers Keep Talking About Talking Without Actually Talking (GAY!)

Also in our weekly LGBTQ+ TV round-up, updates on The Chi, All American, iCarly, Motherland: Fort Salem, and The Republic of Sarah!

The TV Team July 16, 2021 5 Comments
Photo from a Texas protest against Texas SB 7, a bill that would place new restrictions on access to the polls, where a person in the foreground raises their fist with a sign strapped to their torso that reads LET US VOTE
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: All Eyes on the Legislative Battle for Texas

This week we’re talking about the political strife in Haiti, the US’s messy exit from Afghanistan, the development of new COVID variants, your bimonthly legislatively institutionalized moral panic report — and the attacks on citizens’ rights plus the attempts to hold them at bay that are rocking Texas legislative chambers.

the team July 16, 2021 4 Comments
House & Garden

Be Part of Autostraddle’s Spaces & Places Gallery!

Show us your favorite corner or room of your space. How did you put it together? Where did the pieces come from? Why do you love it? Share photos of your space and we’ll post them in a big gallery post, so that you can find inspiration and also share what you love!

meg July 16, 2021 1 Comment
House & Garden

Queer Design 101: Figuring Out Your Personal Design Style

When I found myself facing the blank walls of my new room, I had a minor moment of panic. Has the same thing happened to you?

Christina Tucker July 16, 2021 6 Comments
Three repeating images of the cover of Mariame Kaba's We Do This Til We Free Us
Literature

“We Do This ‘Til We Free Us” Makes Abolition Accessible Without Claiming It’s Easy

Imagining what true justice would look like is difficult and strange and convoluted and there aren’t easy answers. Kaba, along with countless other writers, thinkers, and revolutionaries, has spent decades doing so anyway – and has given us this book as a gift as we attempt to do the same.

Abbie Jones July 16, 2021 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Doing Karaoke With Shane and Bette and Sophie and Finley

“This is so on point that in a weird Mandela Effect way I genuinely now believe that I have seen Alice sing ‘Bitch’ and will not be convinced otherwise.”

Darcy July 16, 2021 4 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #39: FASHION

Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!

the team July 16, 2021 28 Comments
A stoned Alice and Malika ponder life on the roof of the Coterie, this week on "Good Trouble."
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Season 3B Premiere: Alice and Malika Share Edibles and Heartbreak

Natalie recaps the Good Trouble 3B premiere and chats with EP Joanna Johnson about what we can expect for Alice in the coming season.

Natalie July 15, 2021 1 Comment
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also.: Research Finds Being In Love with Your Best Friend Is Provably Gay Culture

Hong Kong’s drag scene, Free Britney, how to find an LGBT-friendly pediatrician, Candace Parker and more!

Natalie July 15, 2021 2 Comments
House & Garden LGBTQ+ Businesses

Spaces & Places: A Roundup of 30 Queer-Owned Houseware Shops

Whether you’re in the market for furniture, art, candles, planters, kitchenware, organizers, textiles, or little tchotchkes, these queer-owned shops have got you covered.

meg July 15, 2021 6 Comments
In this review for Gunpowder Milkshake, Angela Bassett has on a blue suit and holds a firearm, Michelle Yeoh and Carla Gugino are behind her.
Movie Reviews

Gunpowder Milkshake Wants Credit for Including Kickass Women, It Forgot You Have to Write Them First

If women bone cracking the skulls of men to a Janis Joplin soundtrack with pints upon pints of gory jello blood to spare is your idea of summer weekend fun, there are worse ways to spend your two hours.

Carmen Phillips July 15, 2021 6 Comments
Movie Lists

De-Gayed By Hollywood: 22 Movies That “Straightwashed” LGBTQ+ Women Characters

Lesbian and bisexual characters have been straightwashed out of existence in many beloved Hollywood films. Here are 22 examples of times queer stories were de-gayed for mainstream consumption.

Riese July 15, 2021 17 Comments
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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Discipline Is Part of Creation

On writing regularly, an approach for overwhelm, a book of botanical drawings and more.

Ryan Yates July 15, 2021 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Legally Blonde’s Writers Trample Best Rumor of 2021, Say Ending Was Always Straight

MJ Rodriguez’s mom reacts to her Emmy nom, the trailer for Fear Street: 1666, and would you let the cast of Gunpowder Milkshake kick your ass?

Heather Hogan July 14, 2021 4 Comments
Editor's Note
AF+ House & Garden

Editor’s Notes: On Spaces & Places

The ways that we allow ourselves to take up space, to make our homes comfortable and reflective of who we are, are gifts that we give to ourselves.

meg July 14, 2021 11 Comments
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House & Garden Relationships

Dating a Librarian Is The Best Thing To Happen To My Bookshelves

What dating a librarian and fellow writer taught me about organization and intimacy.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 14, 2021 22 Comments
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Webcomics

Foolish Child #99b: Post-Covid Hot Girl Summer

She said something about picking up a few rebounds for a post-Covid Hot Girl Summer so…

Dickens July 14, 2021 2 Comments
Alice performs standup at an open mic in Season 3 of "Good Trouble."
TV Feature

Good Trouble EP Previews Alice’s 3B Storylines: “She’s Growing So Much”

“I think that Alice’s arc is to find her voice and to stand up for herself. She’s probably always been good about standing up for others, but not quite standing up for herself. So, in this respect, she stood up for herself and others and they didn’t stand up for her.”

Natalie July 14, 2021
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