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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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Should We Rescue Our Trans Niece From Her MAGA Family?

The queer aunt wonders how best to help her sister’s trans daughter. Also; advice on how to maintain your creative pursuits after moving in with your partner.

the team

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Nov 14, 2025

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My Boss Is Withholding My Raise For The Most Annoying Reason

How can you pretend to like meetings you’re certain could’ve been an email? Also — tips for dating in a second language.

the team

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Nov 7, 2025

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How To Perform a Cord Cutting Ceremony

The cord cutting ceremony (or ritual) aims to symbolically (and spiritually/energetically) sever the ties that bind you to someone, to something, to an idea, that does not serve your higher…

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Nov 3, 2025

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I’m Jealous That My Ex-Wife’s New Wife Is a Better Coparent Than My Girlfriend

You were ok with your girlfriend’s disinterest in parenting — until your ex-wife remarried. Also, a reader needing tips on quitting weed.

the team

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Oct 31, 2025

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My Girlfriend’s Ex Sent Me a Warning Message. Should I Hear Her Out?

Your new girlfriend’s ex has tracked you down and has some things to tell you! Also, how to stay COVID-safe while getting more involved in queer kink communities.

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Oct 24, 2025

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Queer Dream Interpretation: Five Common Nightmare Images and What They Mean

Ever dream of broken bones, tornadoes, dark skies, doppelgängers, or eerily familiar places? Cowboy Clairvoyant will help you understand what’s going on in your psyche.

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Oct 20, 2025