‘My Wife-To-Be Has Different Cleaning Standards. Is That a Dealbreaker?’
“I honestly want to cry, I am so tired. Every time I bring it up she cries.”
Can’t a Lesbian Enjoy a Little Straight Porn Around Here?
Your best friend is shaming you for the kind of porn that gets you off. Also; tips on having more threesomes.
I Treat My Wife Like a Barbie Doll and She Likes It
Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Kristen Arnett discuss the sliding scale of gender expression and how a femme wife is like having an IRL Barbie.
‘My Partner Talks on the Phone With Their Abusive Ex Every Day’
“Am I valid to be unsettled? And is there anything I can do to facilitate a conversation with them about this?”
‘My Girlfriend Thinks My Music Taste Is Trash’
She’ll often play recent music and ask me if I know who it is when she knows the answer is no.
‘I Want To Flee My Relationship’
“Today, I was talking to a dear friend about the current state of my relationship. They told me that it sounds like I am trapped, and that I am being controlled. Worst of all, they said that my long-term partner ‘basically owns’ me.”
HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!
Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits.
My Girlfriend Hates That My Family Is White, But I Can’t Fix That
She roasts your family for being so white, and you’re like… yep we are, that’s true! So now what? Also, let us plan your trip to Italy!
Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow
You’ve compromised for her, but she still judges you for smoking weed. Also, is this out-of-state queer wedding worth the PTO?
My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan?
She knows you can’t afford the thing you need, but hasn’t even offered to help?! Also, we settle a debate about bookshelves!
Will She Dump Me If I Don’t Wanna Join Her Wellness Journey?
Is it OK to tell your girlfriend you’d simply rather watch TV than exercise with her? Also, what to do when texting people back feels like homework!
‘How Can I Be a Good Girlfriend When My Partner Is Extremely Anxious About Sex’
“I feel like we intuitively understand each other and our needs in a lot of matters and are willing to figure it out when intuition isn’t enough. One area that we have not been able to find understanding around is physical intimacy.”
I Love Living Alone, But My Girlfriend’s Ready to U-Haul
You’re not sure you’re ready to live with your girlfriend yet! Also, a reader is hurt by a friend’s rejection of her mother.
‘I Want To Support My Partner Who Is Starting HRT’
“I know there will be need to be a lot of conversations about what they’re feeling and conversations specific to how I can support them.”
Should I Get Married Before Trump Takes Office?
An international couple ponders a visa marriage before Trump takes office. Also a reader wonders if dietary restrictions can be a dealbreaker.
10 Questions for Couples To Ask Each Other Before Moving in Together
Asking each other these 10 questions can set you up for a smoother move-in and create ongoing conversations about your needs and expectations for living together.
My Girlfriend Thinks Bad Service Deserves a Bad Tip, I Disagree
Your server was really bad, but is it ever ok to leave a bad tip? Also, should you give unsolicited relationship advice to a friend?
‘I Love My Girlfriend but Sometimes She Annoys Me’
“I feel bad because obviously she’s texting me because she wants to talk to me, but I don’t like texting and I don’t want to constantly have such empty conversations.”
American Highway Infrastructure Is Evil and Other Lessons From My Long Distance Lesbian Relationship
Also: Podcasts are extinct — just call your yappy girlfriend!
Should I Dump My Trump-Loving Girlfriend?
Your girlfriend just straight up voted for Trump, so now what?? Also, a reader feels conflicted about Trump voters throwing her baby shower.