Forget U-Hauling — These Queer Couples Don’t Want To Move In Together At All
You’ve heard the one about lesbians wanting to move in together on the second date, but what about the couples who aren’t looking to move in together at all?
‘My Partner and I Have Completely Different Concepts of Bedtime’
I really do want to be able to go to bed together.
How Can I Convince My Girlfriend To Accept Her Shot at Financial Freedom?
Your parents can help your girlfriend achieve some financial freedom, but she super doesn’t see it that way. Plus, a reader wonders if cis people can use “they/them”?
The Ultimate Guide To Being Happy in a Lesbian Long Distance Relationship
For as long as there are lesbians, there will be lesbians in long distance relationships it seems.
Can I Ask My Non-Binary Partner to Pretend To Be a Cis Man For My Sister’s Wedding?
Is it selfish to ask your spouse to pretend to be someone they aren’t, just so you’re not alone? Also, a reader has penis envy, possibly, maybe?
Broke and Lonely? “Lavender Marriage” May Be For You!
Gen Zers who are tired of being “broke, single, and lonely” are drawn to the idea of a rebranded “lavender marriage” as a way to enjoy marriage’s practical benefits without all the sex and romance.
What Are Mixed Orientation Relationships?
And what can we learn from dating people with sexual orientations different from our own?
I Want My Girlfriend To Quit Acting and Get a Job
Are you the asshole for asking your girlfriend to give up her acting dreams and get a real job? Also, we help a reader decide if it’s time to break up.
‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’
“I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.”
‘Quarantine Was Great for My Relationship’
“How do we get back to where we were without literally going back to where we were during lockdown?”
I Think My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me With Her Work Wife
The knowing glances, the closeness, the fact that she’s your girlfriend’s type…??? Also, can you transition from exes to friends with a longterm gf if you’re still really mad?
I Read My Girlfriend’s Diary and Now I’m Using It To My Advantage
The intel you gathered has improved your relationship, but can you come back from this sin? Plus advice for gender expansive workplace dialogue!
Is My Butchness Ruining Our Relationship?
Your style is leaning more masculine these days, and compliments from your girlfriend have dried up. Also we share reading recs on the topic of gender and desire!
‘My Wife Is in the Early Stages of Transitioning, and I Feel Weird About Keeping Her Identity a Secret’
“It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.”
I Moved In With My Girlfriend and Now I Don’t Like Them Anymore
You moved in with your girlfriend and now she’s annoying the f*ck out of you. Also; some major small-town poly drama!
10 Challenges of a Long Distance Relationship That Have Nothing To Do With the Relationship
Here are the ten biggest challenges I’ve faced as someone who splits my time between two countries because an Instagram crush got out of hand and whoops I fell madly in love.
I Hate That I Want My Girlfriend To Stop Posting Sexy Pics Of Herself On Social Media
A girlfriend’s sex-positivity is crossing a line — but it’s a line you don’t even want to have. Also, a reader outed a cheater and now it’s just Drama City!
‘The Lack of Physical Affection From My Girlfriend Is Becoming Unbearable’
“I just feel like a huge 30-year-old crybaby thinking about asking for more physical affection and, on my worst days, starting to think ‘maybe moving in was a mistake.'”
What My Queer Long Distance Relationship Taught Me About Trust
Dating as a lesbian has its own barriers even without an anxiety disorder.
My Girlfriend Has Been Lying to Me for Months About The Weirdest Thing
You don’t care if she graduated college or not, but either way she’s been lying about it to everyone! Plus advice on dealing with a couple’s fight when they’re also your roommates.