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AF+ First Person

Step Into The Parlour, a Queer Shared Diary

The Parlour is a new weekly newsletter and column for paid members that invites you into a space for unfiltered, of-the-moment queer slice-of-life writing. Think of it like a diary passed between your favorite queer writers!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 16, 2025 4 Comments
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Movie Reviews

‘The Wedding Banquet’ Is the Next Great Queer Romcom

Despite its commitment to the realities of queer Asian American experience, immigrant experience, and lesbian motherhood experience, The Wedding Banquet is less the indie dramedy of the original and more the rare gift of a big queer comedy.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 16, 2025 7 Comments
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I Don’t Want To Get Pregnant but I Keep Dreaming I Am

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Autumn Fourkiller April 16, 2025 6 Comments
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Culture

Harper Steele, Bob the Drag Queen, and More Queer Celebs Tell Autostraddle Their Favorite Lesbian Movies

The Center in NYC held its annual dinner to recognize leaders in the LGBTQ community and present an award to Kesha. Autostraddle hit the red carpet to chat with some of the attendees!

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Shyanne Sellers Gets Engaged To Her Girlfriend and Drafted to the WNBA All In One Week

Last week, Shyanne Sellers got drafted to the WNBA’s Golden State Valkyries and also got engaged to her girlfriend, Seton Hall basketball player Faith Masonius and both of those things are very gay things to do, I think.

Riese April 15, 2025
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Book Lists TV Feature

What Queer Poetry Book Would Fix Each Yellowjacket (Or Make Them Worse)

One of the most important pillars of girlhood is orbiting your entire personality around the likes of Sylvia Plath and writing your own poetry to deal with the woes of one’s burgeoning sexuality, toxic friendships, and other coming-of-age tragedies.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan April 15, 2025
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AF+

The Anti-Uhaul Couple With a 22-Year Age Gap Who Used to F*ck in Cars

Don’t get me wrong — AJ and Natasha would still f*ck in a roomy SUV if absolutely necessary.

Sex/Life April 15, 2025 3 Comments
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Relationships

‘I Want To Flee My Relationship’

“Today, I was talking to a dear friend about the current state of my relationship. They told me that it sounds like I am trapped, and that I am being controlled. Worst of all, they said that my long-term partner ‘basically owns’ me.”

Summer Tao April 15, 2025 7 Comments
TV Show Recaps

‘The Last of Us’ Episode 201 Recap: Brand New Day

The Last of Us is back with new queers, new threats, and more angst than ever.

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TV Reviews

The Return of ‘Hacks’ Is Brutally Funny — and Straight Up Brutal

The girls are fighting, and it’s more intense than ever.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 14, 2025
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TV Reviews

‘Black Mirror’ Isn’t Worth Its Issa Rae/Emma Corrin Romance

It’s fun to see Issa Rae in a suit. It’s fun to see Emma Corrin put on the cadence of classic cinema. It’s fun to watch them kiss. But are lesbian audiences really that easy? Are we so vapid to celebrate these aesthetic pleasures without asking for more?

Drew Burnett Gregory April 14, 2025 13 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Lesbian Body of Water Are You?

Let’s be real: All bodies of water are a little bit lesbian.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 13, 2025 15 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

What Does the Libra Full Moon Mean for Your Sign?

This Full Moon in Libra is beckoning us towards a re-evaluation of balance. Where are you noticing excess? Where are you noticing deficiency?

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TV Show Recaps

‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Episode 1715 Recap: Suzie With a Z

Rudemptions! Ruveals! Rulying on gimmicks! It’s time for another Lipsync Lalaparuza.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 12, 2025 3 Comments
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AF+ TV Feature

Dykes Discuss Apple TV’s ‘The Studio’

Two dykes discuss Apple TV+’s The Studio, their shared love of Seth Rogen, Chase Sui Wonders on Genera+ion, KATHRYN HAHN, and why Apple is anti-cigarette.

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April 11, 2025 5 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Yellowjackets Episode 310 Recap: Pit Girl, Antler Queen, and Everything In Between

The season three finale reveals who Pit Girl is, who the Antler Queen is, and who killed Lottie.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 11, 2025 41 Comments
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AF+

HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship!

Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits.

the team April 11, 2025 3 Comments
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TV Reviews

The Queer Romance on ‘Love on the Spectrum’ Was Worth the Wait

The conversations Pari and Tina have about autism, masking, queerness, and their choices to be themselves in spite of pushback are some of the most poignant in the show.

Nico April 11, 2025 7 Comments
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AF+

Are You Coming to Our ‘Yellowjackets’ Season Finale Virtual Watch Party Tonight?!

Yellowjackets is best watched in a hive, so won’t you join me?!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 11, 2025 6 Comments
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TV Feature

Liv Hewson On Collaborating With Lauren Ambrose, Cannibalism and Van’s Queerness: The Autostraddle Interview

“When I imagine Van pre-crash, I imagine somebody who’s getting called a dyke in the hallway and going, ‘Yep. Yes, I am. Yes, sir.'”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 10, 2025 5 Comments
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