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Nearly two thousand couples got married in Thailand today as legalized same-sex marriage went into effect and these photos are going to warm your heart I guarantee it.

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LGBT History

40 Years Ago, Lesbian Erotica Magazine ‘On Our Backs’ Paved the Way for Horny Sapphic Art

On Our Backs, which originally ran from 1984 to 1990 and was revitalized from 1998 to 2002, existed for one central purpose: to portray lesbian sex and sexuality, with real lesbians.

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So no nominations for ‘Queer,’ but what about the queers?

Drew Burnett Gregory January 23, 2025 1 Comment
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Movie Lists

60 Best Lesbian Movies on Tubi

Everything from indie movies to docs to romance to horror and more — Tubi’s got lots of queer streaming options!

Riese January 23, 2025 8 Comments
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Baby Steps #5: Fixing the Window

“If I’d made it this far into the pregnancy without being forced to face the reality that has inspired many of my generation to forego reproduction altogether, I could do so no longer.”

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Movie Features

Rediscovering the Once Lost Japanese Genderqueer Road Movie ‘Bye Bye Love’ 50 Years Later

Bye Bye Love is a film all about the ways identity is constructed, defined, and imposed.

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This New ‘Yellowjackets’ Season 3 Trailer Has Me Screaming at the Top of My Lungs

A new longer trailer for Yellowjackets season 3 just dropped, and it’s perfect.

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No Filter: Keke Palmer Is Simply the Funniest Woman Alive

Plus, a t-shirt slay from Tommy Dorfman and more queer celeb IG posts.

Christina Tucker January 22, 2025 2 Comments
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Politics + Activism

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I’ve flirted with women at bars, online, and have even had a few steamy make-out sessions, but I’m extremely anxious about taking it any further.

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TV Show Recaps

‘Southern Hospitality’ Is Steadily Becoming the Queerest Show on Bravo

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Queer Horoscopes for Aquarius Season 2025

Aquarius Season brings the energy of change and freedom. Embracing the uprising of this season will allow you to change the typical into spectacular.

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