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What Supplies To Buy for All Kinds of DIY Holiday Gift Projects

From clay projects to candle making, here’s what you need to DIY your holiday gifts this year!

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No Filter: Ali Krieger Is Grateful For Your Love, Sick Of “Dishonesty and Misinformation”

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From ‘Calamity Jane’ to ‘Wicked’: A History of Queer Women in Movie Musicals

To celebrate the release of Wicked here is an exhaustive look at the representation of queer women in movie musicals.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 4, 2024 36 Comments
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Baby Steps #2: Telling Chosen Family, Bonding With Heterosexuals and a Lot of Dog Feelings

When do you start telling people that you’re pregnant and how should you do it? Is pregnancy the great equalizer when it comes to the straight family gaze? Do unborn babies know when you are sad? Plus, Gretchen answers a reader question about how she came around to wanting to be a parent (it includes a Rock Bottom and the World’s Worst Dog)!

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‘I Want To Sext a Stranger for Self-Discovery’

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Nico December 3, 2024 3 Comments
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From stocking stuffers to luxury items, we’ve got cozy season picks from $5-100+ so you can live your most snug and warm life.

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Our Dad Danielle documentary interview: Danielle smiles wearing sunglasses in a pool
Movie Features

New Documentary ‘Our Dad, Danielle’ Didn’t Know How Necessary It Would Become

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Sa'iyda Shabazz December 3, 2024 2 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

We’re Closing Out the Year With a Sexy Queer Slasher Movie (Thank You, Hilarie Burton)

A new sapphic slasher is coming our way this month, Critical Role is in Rolling Stone, some gay soccer relationship updates, the call for the extended cut of the Arcane queer sex scene, and more !

Valerie Anne December 2, 2024 1 Comment
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Movie Features

In Time-Honored Musical Theater Tradition, Almost Everyone in the ‘Wicked’ Movie Is Gay

Who all’s gay in the Wicked cast? Turns out, a lot of them!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 2, 2024 14 Comments
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First Person

How ‘Love Lies Bleeding’ Healed My Broken Heart

I never thought a horror movie would be the key to healing from my first lesbian breakup, but Love Lies Bleeding got your girl together.

Eva Reign December 2, 2024 2 Comments
MILF Cinema needs lesbians: Nicole Kidman leans in to kiss Zac Efron in A Family Affair
Movie Features

Why Didn’t the “Year of MILF Cinema” Include Lesbians?

The MILF revolution will be televised…but apparently it will not make room for queer women?!?!

Lisa Laman December 2, 2024
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Autostraddle + For Them’s Ultimate Team Holigay Gift Guide 2024

Get in here and see what all the gays at For Them and Autostraddle want this holiday season!

the team December 2, 2024 2 Comments
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December 2024: What’s New, Gay and Streaming on Netflix, Hulu, Peacock and Prime Video

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Riese December 1, 2024 6 Comments
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Quiz: Which Broadway Musical Lyrics Should You Be Holding Space For Right Now?

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Riese December 1, 2024 12 Comments
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Relationships

10 Questions for Couples To Ask Each Other Before Moving in Together

Asking each other these 10 questions can set you up for a smoother move-in and create ongoing conversations about your needs and expectations for living together.

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Baopu #129: An Impressive Routine

Will I get to do everything I set out to do, without a routine that includes getting up early every morning?

Yao Xiao November 30, 2024 4 Comments
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The Top 10 Queer Home Video Releases of 2024

Physical media is back! Or, for some of us, it never left. Here are the best queer Blu-Ray and DVD releases of 2024.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 29, 2024 1 Comment
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Gay Brat Gifts That Scream Merry Charli XCXmas

A very merry bratmas to us all!

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