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House & Garden

A List of Small Things You’ll Never Regret Doing

Easy and free (or inexpensive) things to do that’ll make you feel like a whole new person.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 28, 2024 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Jenna Lyons Opens Up About Her Abortion on ‘Real Housewives of New York’

She also shares she’s absolutely allowed to have a crush on castmate Racquel.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 27, 2024
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Comedy Thanksgiving

‘Midsommar’ Is a Sapphic Thanksgiving Horror Movie

Both Midsommar and Thanksgiving use the concept of a holiday celebration to distract from murder.

Alissa Nutting November 27, 2024 1 Comment
Towa Bird
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Towa Bird’s Hair Is an Inspiration

Plus, Brittney and Cherelle Griner are looking SO CUTE as parents — and more gay updates from Instagram.

Christina Tucker November 27, 2024
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Gender

I’m Legally Changing My Name and Sex Designation, and I Feel Complicated About It

As much as my transition is a deeply personal journey, the external pressures and political environment complicate this process in ways I never anticipated.

Motti November 27, 2024 10 Comments
NEW YORK, NEW YORK - SEPTEMBER 19: 2024 New York #LWTSUMMIT on September 19, 2024 in New York City. (Photo by Bonnie Biess/Getty Images for Lesbians Who Tech & Allies)
Sports

Ashlyn Harris Continues to Process Her Breakup With Ali Krieger: “We Never Spoke the Same Language”

Ashlyn Harris appeared on the “Naked Sports” podcast where she talked about her feelings on why her marriage with Ali Krieger didn’t work, including a lack of physical intimacy.

Riese November 26, 2024 13 Comments
Theater

For Justin Vivian Bond, Glamor Is Resistance

“I have every intention of continuing to keep it pretty, keep it shallow, and keep it moving.”

Elyssa Maxx Goodman November 26, 2024 2 Comments
Arcane finale: Vi kisses Caitlyn's neck in the CaitVi sex scene
TV Reviews

‘Arcane’ Delivers a Steamy Gay Sex Scene and an Epic Finale

“When she locked Vi in that cell, I was truly afraid of what might come next. I did not anticipate it being Caitlyn.”

Valerie Anne and Nic
November 26, 2024 6 Comments
"Oh my god I cant explain how dull 70% of our text conversations are."
Relationships

‘I Love My Girlfriend but Sometimes She Annoys Me’

“I feel bad because obviously she’s texting me because she wants to talk to me, but I don’t like texting and I don’t want to constantly have such empty conversations.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 26, 2024 8 Comments
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Movie Features

‘Wicked’ Has Always Been Queer

The musical that put a handprint on my heart.

Christina Tucker November 26, 2024 6 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Midori Francis Would Be Delighted To Return to Grey’s Anatomy but “For Mika It’d Be Triggering”

Midori Francis on leaving Grey’s Anatomy, me on her leaving Sex Lives of College Girls, a Chappell Roan x Sabrina Carpenter duet, big TV renewals and return dates, and more

Valerie Anne November 25, 2024 3 Comments
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Life

How To Conquer Your Fears and Get Out of a Creative Rut

“There is a reason you started making art in the first place, and that reason is joy. I suggest you make something purely because you want to make it.”

swan huntley November 25, 2024
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Movie News & Trailers

Everyone Agrees: Glinda Might Be a Little Bit in the Closet

Two out of two Glindas agree that Glinda might be a little bit in the closet.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 25, 2024 3 Comments
Kelly Marie Tran
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Movie News & Trailers

Kelly Marie Tran Comes Out, Will Star in VERY Queer Romcom With Lily Gladstone

Tran and Gladstone co-star in the upcoming even more queer remake of the already very queer The Wedding Banquet.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 25, 2024 6 Comments
Caroline kisses Annie in low lighting at a rush event in the Cruel Intentions TV series
TV Reviews

‘Cruel Intentions’ (2024) Isn’t Horny

I can’t believe I’m going to say this, but the Cruel Intentions series made me miss Euphoria. If a show is going to be bad, I’d rather it at least be sexy.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 25, 2024 5 Comments
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Relationships

American Highway Infrastructure Is Evil and Other Lessons From My Long Distance Lesbian Relationship

Also: Podcasts are extinct — just call your yappy girlfriend!

Gabrielle Grace Hogan November 25, 2024 2 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Premature Commitment Should You Make This Cuffing Season?

Find out what ill-advised BIG step to take with your person who you maybe haven’t even defined the relationship with.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 24, 2024 3 Comments
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Movie Features

Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: Cruel Intentions Is the Horniest Movie of All Time

Cruel Intentions is an interesting movie in that it doesn’t have a ton of EXPLICIT queerness and yet it probably plays a significant role in more queer awakenings than most very queer movies.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Drew Burnett Gregory
November 23, 2024 2 Comments
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Webcomics

Reine #67: Handy Masc

Having a booboo is so butch.

Ren Strapp November 23, 2024 1 Comment
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AF+

I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex

How to navigate dating apps when you have very limited sexual experience?! Also, a reader feels isolated after experiencing profound family loss.

the team November 22, 2024 5 Comments
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