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Movie Features

Fix Your Hearts and Live

It is through women that Lynch reminds us: No matter how dark it gets, there is always the possibility for suffering to end.

Morgan M Page January 19, 2025 5 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Character From “The Birdcage” Are You?

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‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Episode 1703 Recap: You Reap What You Sew

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TV Reviews

‘Harley Quinn’ Season Five Matures Alongside Its Central Couple

If you had asked me five years ago who one of the longest-running and least toxic queer relationships on television would be, I never would have guessed it would be these two animated, villainous babes.

Valerie Anne January 18, 2025
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Sports

Your Complete Guide to Women’s Basketball League Unrivaled, Which Is 50% Gay

3-on-3 women’s basketball league Unrivaled launches tonight. Here’s your guide to the league, its teams, and which of your favorite gay players you’ll be seeing on the court.

Natalie January 17, 2025 7 Comments
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The Scene

LA Lesbian Bar Ruby Fruit Is Fighting For Its Survival. We Really Need It To Win.

“The thing about having a community hub, a place you return to again and again, is that it makes the city feel smaller. You start to run into the same people; you realize that friends you’ve made from totally different parts of your life already know each other— that we’re all more interconnected than we feel.”

Gabrielle Korn January 17, 2025 5 Comments
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AF+

My High School Bully Is Happier Than Me

She bullied you for being gay, now she’s the one living a perfect queer life!?? Also, what to do about mismatched communication needs in a relationship?

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Comedy

Every Post By My Hacker Ranked By How Likely I Would Have Posted It

Learn from my mistake: Turn on two-factor authentication using an authenticator app. Right now.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 17, 2025 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

‘The Traitors’ Can’t Produce Its Way Out of Bigotry

As we’ve seen time and again on all of these reality shows, the real world will always seep in. It’s what makes a show like The Traitors so interesting and also often so miserable.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 17, 2025 12 Comments
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TV Reviews

‘Goosebumps: The Vanishing’ Brings Positive Queer Representation to a Younger Audience

Goosebumps is back with a spooky second season full of strange monsters, book references, and queer teens.

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Movie Lists

The Best Movies About Queer Men According to Lesbians

Leave it to a bunch of lesbians to pick a film this filled with unrequited love and longing!

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First Person Issues

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TV Reviews

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Music

2025 Is Off to a Great Start for Queer Music, With New Videos From Lucy Dacus and Japanese Breakfast

This week truly seems blessed by the queer music gods.

Stef Rubino January 15, 2025 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

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Plus, more queer celebrity news from Instagram.

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TV Lists

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First Person

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Shopping

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