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Feature image for "On Our Chests A+ Roundtable" It has a background of a bunch of doodles that look straight out of a 13-year-old's notebook. There are 2 illustrations, one of a woman playing tennis whose skeleton is visible and one of a woman wearing a bra and smiling softly
AF+

A+ Roundtable: On Our Chests

The AS team gets our feelings about our chests…off our chests!

the team March 7, 2022 19 Comments
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Queer Fashion

The Most Baffling Fashion Choices I Made When I Was 13

I’ve rounded up some of the most, uhhh, creative? style choices I made at 13 and reimagined them as fashion spreads in a clearly VERY high budget teen magazine of my own making.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 7, 2022 28 Comments
This image looks like a page out of a 13 year old's notebook, covered in doodles and little drawings of stick figures and skulls. There is a detailed image of an eye and gem stickers placed all over it. In large bubble letters it reads, "It's our 13th Birthday Member Drive!" The A+ logo is drawn as a little doodle up in the corner.
Straddleverse

This Indie Queer Media Site Made It To 13! What If We Kept Going?

Hell or high water, we’re making it to the end of thirteen years AND we’re going to celebrate the heck out of our queer community, too!

Nico March 7, 2022 3 Comments
Helene sucks on Eve's finger on Killing Eve
TV Show Recaps

“Killing Eve” Episode 402 Recap: Dangerously Hot

Villanelle kisses Villanelle-Jesus, Hot Helene sucks Eve’s fingers and then engages in some lite burnplay, and I am simply PERSPIRING.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 7, 2022 18 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

Kate McKinnon Says GAY GAY GAY in Response to Homophobic Florida Bill

If ya can’t say it, sing it!

Heather Hogan March 6, 2022 4 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Top Chef Would Chef Top You?

After all, every top chef needs a bottom…I mean, sous chef.

Shayna Maci March 6, 2022 17 Comments
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Food Lists

It’s Time To Get Into Tinned Fish

Welcome to It’s Time To Get Into, a new snacking series where I help you spice up your grocery shopping list by telling you what to buy and how to eat it — with an emphasis on no-cook options!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 6, 2022 17 Comments
Drag Race Recap 1406: DeJa, Camden, Willow, and Angeria sit on the main stage laughing during their Drag Con panel.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1409 Recap: Language, A Work in Progress

Angeria says that she’s called a drag lesbian because she likes to date other queens.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 5, 2022 6 Comments
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Sports

WNBA All-Star Brittney Griner Is Being Held by Russian Authorities

Griner was arrested after authorities found vape cartridges in her luggage when she arrived at an airport near Moscow while in the country playing with her Russian Premiere League team.

Heather Hogan March 5, 2022 14 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Bel-Air’s Ashley Banks Is Queer and Crushing

Plus updates on The Real Dirty Dancing, Legacies, A Million Little Things, NCIS: Hawai’i, and All American!

Natalie, Sally and Valerie Anne
March 4, 2022 6 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

That Time Holland Taylor Told Gillian Anderson to Keep Her Hand Off Sarah Paulson’s Ass

Starring Glennon Dolyle with the snitch-tag!

Heather Hogan March 4, 2022 8 Comments
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Food and Drink Shopping

10 Kitchen Tools, Apps and Storage Tricks For Neurotic Solo Cooks

The products and apps that have helped me stop ordering Postmates and instead chop onions without crying, keep food fresh and accessible through strategic storage, plan meals and cook them!

Riese March 4, 2022 10 Comments
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Queer Fashion

So You Want To Know The Trends for Spring

The early aughts revival is going strong, so prepare to relive your days of middle school via a ton of sparkles, butterflies and the like.

Christina Tucker March 4, 2022 3 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Just Met a Dame with Enormous Dignity

“The last verse of ‘Puff the Magic Dragon’ sets me off.”

Darcy March 4, 2022 8 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #55: So You’ve Developed Major Feelings for a Friend

Bed death, wanting to be told you’re beautiful, HOW do you date, dealing with two friends who started dating and more!

the team March 4, 2022 8 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: A Lesbian Sports Bar Might Save Lesbian Bars, How Has No One Thought of This Before?

Lesbians love sports, have you heard of this brand new concept? Also, a guide to Black-owned wineries around the world.

Carmen Phillips March 3, 2022 4 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 713 Recap: Avalance, Baby!

Sara and Ava get some unexpected news as they lead their team on an adventure to save a rogue legend.

Valerie Anne March 3, 2022 6 Comments
The feature image for our Ask Us Anything Announcement Post! The whole thing has an early high school vibe. In script-like handwriting at the top it says "Ask Us Anything!" followed by "At our 13th birthday AMA. There are photos of each of our team members who are participating inside of polaroid-esque photo frames. These team members are, from left to right: Shelli Nicole, Meg, Casey, Heather, Kayla, Nicole, Carmen, Riese, Vanessa, Laneia, Dani, Em, Ro, and Drew. There are also doodles of a heart, an eye, and a ghost!
Straddleverse

Our 13th Birthday Ask-Us-Anything is Tuesday March 8th!

Ask us about TV, being divorced, mental health, being a cool gay aunt, sex, queer dating and MORE!

Nico March 3, 2022 8 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Batwoman” Episode 313 Recap: Blimpin’ All Over the World

Ryan finds some time for softness with Sophie in between saving the world in Batwoman’s season finale.

Nic March 3, 2022 16 Comments
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TV Lists

The 26 Best Lesbian Knifeplay Scenes in TV History

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya returns to her stabby gay list from 2019 with some important updates.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 3, 2022 52 Comments
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