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a plate of red sauced ravioli. a pair of legs are emerging from one of the ravioli with a pair of crutches. there's also a mobility cane and a set of legs with a leg brace and crutches.
First Person

Scenes From a Jersey Diner

This is what it means to be from New Jersey. The roughness around the edges isn’t hidden away or sugar-coated.

Katie August 7, 2022 26 Comments
An old television screen shows an image of eggs and bacon. Behind it are planets and rock formations. There is a meatball with red onion for its rings, looking like Saturn. A hand holds a remote.
First Person

Welcome to Diner Week — What Are You Having?

Welcome to Diner Week, a 12-part series of essays by Autostraddle writers and editors set in diners.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya August 7, 2022 15 Comments
Geekery

Pokémon as Lesbian Movies

It’s been a rough week; have some Lesbian Pokémovies. 

Heather Hogan August 6, 2022 7 Comments
Webcomics

Reine #37: Unrestrained Summer Fun

There’s more to life than work. Fight for the four day work week, paid vacation, flexible hours! Get out there!

Ren Strapp August 6, 2022 4 Comments
Zaara accuses Junior of stealing her earbuds. She's wearing a blue flannel top over a short white tank top and black pants.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “Grown-ish” Trades a Performative Lesbian Lovefest for Nacho Night

Plus updates on The Chi, For All Mankind, Only Murders in the Building, Roswell, and American Horror Stories.

Valerie Anne and Natalie
August 5, 2022 3 Comments
A still from They/Them in which Veronica [Monique Kim], a bisexual Asian woman with dyed red and black hair buzzed short on one side and Kim [Anna Lore] a white lesbian with long blonde hair, sit on a dock on a lake at a gay conversion camp. They have looks of deep concern and worry on their faces.
Movie Reviews

“They/Them” Review: Peacock’s New Queer Slasher Is Too Timid for Its Talented Cast

For a movie that bills itself as a queer empowerment film, there is neither enough fighting back nor enough in-your-face queerness.

Nico August 5, 2022 9 Comments
Raptor Boyfriend characters, including a raptor on a skateboard, a winged fairy holding a book, and a teenage bigfoot.
Geekery

“Raptor Boyfriend” Video Game Review: You’re a Cryptid? That’s Cute

Queer dating sim “Raptor Boyfriend” lets you pursue the cryptid of your dreams.

Julie Gentile August 5, 2022 2 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Know: Lesbians Find a Way

(Jeff Goldblum voice) “Lesbians… uh, find a way.”

Darcy August 5, 2022 4 Comments
The cover art for Renaissance by Beyoncé features Beyoncé on an iridescent horse.
Music

Beyoncé’s “Renaissance” Is an Unapologetic Dedication to Blackness and Queerness

I’ve grown to see sampling, when done well, as a love language, a way to remain connected to our history and communicate with the musical innovators who shaped, and continue to breathe life into, our culture.

Amari Gaiter August 5, 2022 3 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #65: So You Think You Might Be Gender Fluid

Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more!

the team August 5, 2022 26 Comments
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First Person

Here’s How Our Lives Have Improved Since Quitting Drinking: A Candid Conversation Between Sober Queers

“I love that sober sex is so much better for me. Even masturbating is better.”

danijanae, Analyssa and Tracy Levesque
August 5, 2022 11 Comments
A photo of Breonna Taylor is seen among other photos of women who have lost their lives as a result of violence during the 2nd Annual Defend Black Women March in Black Lives Matter Plaza on July 30, 2022
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Finally, 4 Police Officers Federally Charged in Breonna Taylor’s Murder

What should an LGBTQ museum be, the many benefits of a four-day work week, just how big abortion won in Kansas and what that means for the midterms, and more.

Heather Hogan August 4, 2022 4 Comments
Photo 1: A group of kids on a little league baseball team gather around their coaches. Photo 2: The writer, Drew, as a young child stands on a baseball field wearing a Mets uniform, a baseball hat, and a baseball glove. Photo 3: Drew holds a bat and wears a 2 jersey and baseball hat while smiling at the camera. Photo 4: Drew swings at a baseball (and is clearly going to miss). Photo 5: Drew wears a 22 jersey and baseball hat and is standing over the plate with a bat, ready to swing.
First Person Sports

An Interview With My Dad About Baseball

And about being the parent of a trans kid.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 4, 2022 19 Comments
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Sports

Brittney Griner Sentenced to 9 Years in Prison by Russian Court, Let This Next Step Bring Her Home

Today is harder than most. But I have to hope — because really, what’s the other choice? — that this guilty verdict is the next step to bringing her home, quickly and safely. There’s no other way.

Carmen Phillips August 4, 2022 19 Comments
A pop art in the style of a 1950s comic of a woman laying in bed at night, she looks terrified. Above her in the dark is bright yellow lettering: L, Lesbian Bed Death"
Sex

The Gay B C’s of Sex: L Is for Lesbian Bed Death

Why did the term “lesbian bed death” stick around in the queer imagination? Well, it’s catchy. And it’s scary!

Ro White August 4, 2022 11 Comments
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Movie Features

Slow Takes: “Shangri-La” and What Makes a Great Short Film

Since the rise of video, “just go out and make something” has been a rallying cry to young filmmakers. I would add not to lose yourself along the way — in content or form.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 4, 2022 2 Comments
The Golden Season by Madeline Kay Sneed features a sweeping landscape of West Texas and a blue sky with clouds.
LGBT Book Reviews

“The Golden Season” Is a Queer Love Letter to West Texas

The writing is gorgeous and filled with beautiful imagery and insightful quotes.

Katie August 4, 2022 2 Comments
Six sex toys are against a light blue background. One is shaped like a pink starfish with a face on it; another is shaped like a black fortune cookie with a light pink stripe along the bottom; another is a dual-stimulation purple two with a long stem with a sphere at the end and a shorter stem with another, curved sphere at the end; another is shaped like a white seashell; two are shaped like yellow ducks with orange beaks and the last one is shaped like a bright pink rose.
Sex Toys

8 Clit-Stimulating Sex Toys That Don’t Actually Look Like Sex Toys

Do you need a sex toy that looks like a starfish, a seashell or a duck? Browse this list and get inspired.

Bunny McFadden August 4, 2022 5 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Motherland: Fort Salem” Episode 307 Recap: The Return of Raelle

This is not a drill! Raelle is back! The lesbian witch returneth!

Valerie Anne August 3, 2022 2 Comments
Fire Island: A Century in the Life of an American Paradise by Jack Parlett features a group of people standing near the water.
LGBT Book Reviews

New “Fire Island” Book Weaves Personal, Historical Narrative To Highlight Power of Community Solidarity

More a place-based memoir than a straightforward history, “Fire Island” provides unique insight on the history, present, and future of this almost mythical place.

Stef Rubino August 3, 2022
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