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Public health nurse Dora Rust-D'Eye teaches special prenatal class for single mothers. One in every 11 babies born to single mom.
AF+ Queer Pregnancy

Baby Steps #6: The Best Laid Birth Plans

Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know until you know it — and if there’s anything I can say about our little Prenatal Birth & Labor class, it is “there was a lot I did not know.”

Riese February 5, 2025 10 Comments
Doechii at the Grammys
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: I Think We Can All Agree the Grammys Belonged to Doechii

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Christina Tucker February 5, 2025 1 Comment
In the Summers: Lío Mehiel and Sasha Calle lean against a wall as the sun sets.
Movie Reviews

‘In the Summers’ Is a Different Kind of Queer Coming-of-Age Story

In the Summers is a queer coming-of-age movie that understands childhood and adolescence are just the beginning.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 5, 2025
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Politics + Activism

Hundreds Protest NYU Langone’s Early Compliance With Trump’s Dangerous Anti-Trans Executive Order

“This decision is not only a moral and medical failure — it’s a betrayal of our patients and our profession,” said Dr. Michael Zingman, a second year child psychiatry fellow at NYU Langone.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 4, 2025 5 Comments
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Relationships

‘How Can I Be a Good Girlfriend When My Partner Is Extremely Anxious About Sex’

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Summer Tao February 4, 2025 10 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Emilia Pérez Star Karla Sofía Gascón’s Unhinged Racist Tweets Have Killed Her Oscar Campaign

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Valerie Anne February 4, 2025 1 Comment
Candis Cayne in Drop Dead Diva season two episode eight, she takes the stand in a court room wearing a black jacket and a purple button down shirt
TV Feature

Very Special Gay Episode: 15 Years Ago ‘Drop Dead Diva’ Cast Candis Cayne as a Trans Lesbian

Drop Dead Diva gave me more than I had ever dared to imagine from a pre-Obergefell comedy… not only were there dykes, one of them was trans.

Sunny Laprade February 4, 2025 1 Comment
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Politics + Activism

Fascist 404s: The Government Is Deleting Vital LGBTQ Health Resources and Data

More than 8,000 web pages with vital information across a dozen government websites have been removed from the internet. These deletions are far-reaching, targeting diversity initiatives and pretty much anything pertaining to gender equality.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 3, 2025 3 Comments
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Music

The Top Gay Moments of the 2025 Grammys

In the first major awards show since Trump became president, some celebrities seized the opportunity to express support for trans youth.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 3, 2025 5 Comments
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Movie Features

Sundance 2025: A Gay and Trans Festival Recap

That’s a wrap on the 2025 Sundance Film Festival! Read about everything Drew Burnett Gregory saw, including the best of LGBTQ+ cinema and beyond.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 3, 2025 5 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2025: ‘Heightened Scrutiny’ Is a Tribute to Trans Solidarity

I spent most of Heightened Scrutiny crying into the arms of my partner.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 2, 2025 2 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: What Lesbian Form of Transportation Are You?

It’s Sunday, and you know what that means! The Autostraddle editors have prepped a brand new way for you to procrastinate from the little Sunday tasks you promised yourself you’d do.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 2, 2025 9 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2025: ‘Sally’ Is a Documentary Portrait of Sally Ride and Her Secret Lesbian Partner of 27 Years

Sally Ride’s partner of 27 years, Tam O’Shaughnessy, is the true star of this film.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 2, 2025
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Book Lists

The Most Anticipated Queer Books for February 2025

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
February 1, 2025 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

‘RuPaul’s Drag Race’ Episode 1705 Recap: Saved By the Pull

Overall, I’d say this RDR Live! was still less painful than the one SNL episode I’ve watched in recent years.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 1, 2025 8 Comments
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Movie Lists TV Lists

February 2025: What’s New, Gay and Streaming on Netflix, Hulu, Max, Paramount+, Prime Video and Peacock

The third season of Yellowjackets is finally here! Plus, Sepideh Moafi plays gay again, Laverne Cox headlines a new comedy and a few queer indies are making their streaming debuts.

Riese February 1, 2025 5 Comments
Saray Rebolledo as La Flaca plays cards in Rains Over Babel with Sundance Film Festival 2025 on the side
Movie Reviews

Sundance 2025: ‘Rains Over Babel’ Is Queer Cinema That’s Wholesome and Transgressive

This has been a terrible week to be trans in the U.S. and I’m so grateful I could take a break and spend a couple hours in Gala del Sol’s fantastical world.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 1, 2025
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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2025: ‘Come See Me in the Good Light’ Is More Than Andrea Gibson’s Cancer Story — It’s Their Love Story

This film isn’t a straight-forward artist portrait. It’s a portrait of Gibson and their partner, fellow poet Megan Falley, as they navigate Gibson’s incurable cancer diagnosis. It’s a tender look at two queer people in love and a celebration of the desire to live.

Drew Burnett Gregory February 1, 2025
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Theater Visual Art

How Rachel Rampleman Built the Largest Drag Archive in the U.S.

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Elyssa Maxx Goodman January 31, 2025 2 Comments
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AF+

Why Won’t My Gay Coworker Hang Out With Me and My Gay Friends?

Why does your queer coworker not want to hang out with you?? Also, a reader is given a Sophie’s choice between their husband or their would-be paramour.

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