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Autostraddle Insider Issue #104: Goodbye Heather Edition

Heather knows, she knows, how to connect with people through stories and writing, she knows how to make you feel seen, buoyed, valued, special, important, remarkable.

Riese and The Editors
September 27, 2023 8 Comments
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Straddleverse

Long Live (Heather’s Version)

This is my last week at Autostraddle. I had the time of my life fighting dragons with you.

Heather Hogan September 27, 2023 91 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: boygenius Is Getting You a New Gay EP for Halloween

GHOST HUNTIES, the writers won the hell out of the strike, Angelina Jolie covers Vogue, and more in today’s Pop Culture Fix!

Heather Hogan September 27, 2023 2 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Chrishell Stause Says G Flip Is “Every Dog and Every Child’s Favorite Person in Every Room”

There is something so comforting about knowing that Reneé Rapp is out here singing her ass off in a jersey and huge jean shorts.

Christina Tucker September 27, 2023
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Loves a Casual Top

Did you hear about the restaurant on the moon?

Kate Hawkins September 27, 2023 3 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

“Living For the Dead” Trailer: Kristen Stewart Ghost Hunting Show Looks Like So Gay Dude

“Kristen Stewart ghost hunting show” is not something we made up in a peak pandemic fever dream. 

Drew Burnett Gregory September 26, 2023 4 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Rosie O’Donnell Landed “League of Their Own” by Being Better at Baseball — Butch Excellence!

Take a deep dive into the casting process for the 1992 movie.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 26, 2023 2 Comments
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Music

Chappell Roan’s Debut Album Is the Anthem for Us Midwestern Queers

Every single song on this album makes me want to throw on a puffy prom dress and hysterically dance around.

Em Win September 26, 2023 6 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

Enter Sapphic Fall Mode With These Fresh Flannels

It’s about time for our annual family trip to go apple and pumpkin picking, so I have flannel on the brain.

Sa'iyda Shabazz September 26, 2023 4 Comments
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Relationships

You Need Help: My Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex

To me, both of these things are true: 1. People’s sex drives can change for any number of reasons, at any time and 2. If sex is important to you, that’s valid, too!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 26, 2023 5 Comments
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TV Feature

Gabby’s Tender Queerness and the Tragedy of Heterosexuality on The Bachelorette

What Gabby offers viewers is the compelling queer suggestion that women do not have to put up with toxic cishet masculinities and the heterosexuality they have on offer.

Ela Przybylo September 26, 2023 7 Comments
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Lesbian Weddings

How To Make Planning Your Queer Wedding HOT

Wedding planning isn’t exactly known for being sexy, but we found a way to make it so.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 25, 2023 9 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Megan Rapinoe Says Goodbye to USWNT With Sue Bird by Her Side

A tentative agreement to win the writers strike, sexy queer horror, Angelica Ross’ receipts, and more in today’s Pop Culture Fix!

Heather Hogan September 25, 2023 3 Comments
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TV Reviews

Throughout Its Four Seasons, “Sex Education” Showed Us a Better Way

Worse sex education and less adolescent autonomy has consequences — consequences no show can overcome. It’s admirable to watch this one try.

Drew Burnett Gregory September 25, 2023 3 Comments
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Comedy

Gay Fall Scented Candles That Should Exist

Your Ex-Wife’s Sweater Weather.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 25, 2023 11 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is No Hero (Unlike 6-Across)

Scientists have discovered what is believed to be the world’s largest bedsheet.

Rachel September 25, 2023 1 Comment
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Quizzes

Quiz: What’s Your Gay Fall Aesthetic?

Part personality quiz, party autumnal lookbook. 🍁

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya September 24, 2023 25 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Sex

The Cozy Under-The-Covers Sex You’re Having This Fall, According to Your Zodiac Sign

Wondering what kind of queer sex your sign’s going to be having this fall? I’m going to tell you, don’t worry.

Nico September 24, 2023 7 Comments
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Anonymous Sex Diary: Happy Bisexual Awareness Week

“My friend in the red shirt says that she thinks you’re really attractive.” A bisexual takes us through a week of polyamorous dating, sex and a little bit of drama.

Guest September 23, 2023 3 Comments
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Geekery

Fae Farm Is Your New Stardew Valley — Including, Yes, Gay Marriage!

If you like growing crops, fighting magical monsters, collecting stuff, and making a whole town fall in love with you, I’ve got some great news.

Heather Hogan September 23, 2023 4 Comments
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