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Don’t Call Me A Dyke! by Effing Dykes

Krista from one of our favorite blogs called “Effing Dykes” has a question for you! It’s about reclaiming words and who has a right to do so. EFFING DYKES ON AUTOSTRADDLE. THIS HAPPENED.

Effing Dykes September 18, 2010 204 Comments
Music

Crystal’s Team Pick: ‘Gay Like Happy’ Mixtape

Just in time for the weekend – a free queer party mix tape!

Crystal September 17, 2010 4 Comments
Music

Lady Gaga’s Don’t Ask Don’t Tell PSA: Schumer Cannot Hear Her, Is K-Kinda Busy

Lady Gaga has a message for the U.S. Senate about the unconstitutionality of DADT and its enforcement, even though they won’t pick up her telephone call. I can only hope John McCain cares as much about what Gaga has to say as we do! When people ask why we love her so much, we want to point to things like this and say “because of things like this.”

Riese September 17, 2010 30 Comments
Straddleverse

This Title Informs You That, Hey, It’s Friday, And There Are Comment Awards

This excerpt tells you that the author of this post wrote it entirely with one hand in a bowl of popcorn, would like to give awards to almost everyone but is slightly crazy and overworked like everyone else on this site/planet, and wishes we could all just get along.

Emily September 17, 2010 15 Comments
Hair

Open Thread: How Do You Create, Keep & Care for an Alternative Lifestyle Haircut?

If your hairstyle’s as gay as we think it is, that issue of Cosmo with “Seventy-One Sexy Hair Tips” isn’t going to be real helpful. Here’s your chance to trade styling and haircare tips for your fellow gaymos!

Rachel September 17, 2010 127 Comments
Politics + Activism

Christine O’Donnell Reminds Us That Gay Family Members Do Not a Homo-Friendly Politician Make

Did you hear the one about the [homophobic politician] and their gay [daughter/sister/brother/friend]? So did we, and you know, it’s really not funny anymore.

Rachel September 17, 2010 36 Comments
Music

Crystal’s Team Pick: Kaki King Australian Tour

This is an Audiostraddle PSA for our Australian readers.

Crystal September 16, 2010 1 Comment
TV Lists

Autostraddle’s Ultimate Fall 2010 Television Preview/Pre-Judge

Why are there 80 zillion new TV shows this year? This is more of a sampling than a survey, because I really can’t cope.

scribegrrrl September 16, 2010 50 Comments
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Editor’s Team Pick: Typical Incendiary Blog Post

“This sentence contains a provocative statement that attracts the readers’ attention, but really only has very little to do with the topic of the blog post. This sentence claims to follow logically from the first sentence, though the connection is actually rather tenuous.”

the team September 16, 2010 45 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

VIDEO: Jane Lynch Visits The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Thanks Her For Blazing Gay Trails

You think being Jane Lynch is hard? Try being waterboarded or being on The Ellen Show, that’s hard. And HEY who’s that new girl on GLEE?

Riese September 16, 2010 12 Comments
Politics + Activism

Is School a Battlefield For Your Homogay Heart?

Some things change and some things stay the same, like kids getting bullied in school for their sexual orientation and/or gender identity. Also, a new survey reveals that most Americans think gay families are kinda normal-ish.

Rachel September 16, 2010 24 Comments
Straddleverse

Autostraddle T-Shirts Are Here! Get ‘Em While They’re Hot

After a long wait at the edge of your seats, Autostraddle t-shirts are finally here! BUY THEM!

Alex September 15, 2010 71 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Queer Fashion

How to Cut Up Your T-Shirt, DIY Style

Our “Autostraddle This” t-shirts are available! (Almost.) So we’re preparing for their arrival with this DIY advice: turn your ill-fitting / beaten up t-shirts into pants, tote bags, patches or restyled, cuter shirts! Little or no sewing skills required.

Laneia September 15, 2010 39 Comments
Travel

On the Road Trip Tips: Taylor and Kelsey’s Winged Migration to San Francisco, Part 2

Kelsey and Taylor fast forward their journey a little, because the first part was boring and full of learning. On the way to New Orleans they learn how to eat, pray, love and remain conscious. Here’s a collection of their pearls of road trip wisdom.

taylor September 15, 2010 14 Comments
The Scene

PYT Girls Amp Up Los Angeles Lesbian Nightlife, One Costume at a Time

PYT (People You Trust) is a new kind of lesbian party, brought to you by 6 Los Angeles women including ReaL L Word’s Romi, Gimme Sugar’s Charlene and DJ Saratonin. Find out what makes this lesbo party team stand out from the pack.

Jess September 15, 2010 19 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Team Pick: Julie Goldman & Brandy Howard Big Gay Pimping

Delicate geniuses Julie Goldman and Brandy Howard went on the Gay Pimp Podcast and talked about The Real L Word, vadge waxing and Michfest! You should probs listen to it immediately.

Riese September 15, 2010 1 Comment
Pop Culture Fix

Can Nicki Minaj Fix Homophobia in Hip-Hop Without Labeling Herself?

Nicki Minaj graces the cover of OUT magazine and wants to fix hip-hop’s homophobia, though she eschews labeling herself despite much talk of bisexuality. Lady Gaga’s DADT activism resulted in a bunch of people googling things like “SLDN” for the first time ever. What do we make of all this?

Riese September 15, 2010 29 Comments
Society + Culture

Lesbians’ Home Set On Fire, World Still Crazy, Mean

This is a really depressing news day, but on the bright side, at least you only have to read about it, and not have your house burned down or endure a custody battle in court.

Rachel September 14, 2010 66 Comments
Politics + Activism

Senate Taking Up Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Repeal Next Week, With Strings Attached

Things continue to move forward remarkably rapidly in terms of a repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell! Senator Harry Reid announces that the bill dealing with a possible repeal will be brought to the Senate floor this week.

Rachel September 14, 2010 5 Comments
Music

All the Albums Release on Sep.14th: Your Handsy Guide to the Extravaganzasplosiongasm

Today, new records drop from Azure Ray, Justin Townes Earle, of Montreal, Weezer, Robert Plant, Bilal, Brandon Flowers and many more. Lindsay’s here to give us the run down.

Lindsay Eanet September 14, 2010 24 Comments
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