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Friendship

Dear Queer Diary: On Pens As Secret Handshakes

According to one of my favorite children’s books, “The ballpoint pen has been the single biggest factor in the decline of Western Civilization. It makes the written word cheap, fast, and totally without character.”

Maggie October 31, 2013 31 Comments
Halloween

Spooky Sexy Queers: The Autostraddle Reader And Staff Halloween Costume Gallery

Wondering how your fellow Straddlers celebrate Halloween? Wonder no longer. We asked for photos and y’all seriously delivered.

Vanessa October 31, 2013 66 Comments
Gender

Quit Calling Elliott Sailors A Male Model—She’s More Interesting Than That

So why can’t anyone seem to talk about her the right way?

Cara October 31, 2013 25 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: The Evolution of Geri Halliwell’s Spell Block Tango

A video party for internet troll appreciators, Spice Girls fans, Disney lovers, and Beyoncé stans.

Brittani October 31, 2013 6 Comments
Halloween

30 Couples Costumes for You and Your Redheaded Girlfriend

So here I have for you, in no particular order, a list of fun couples costumes where one person is a redhead!

Lizz October 31, 2013 32 Comments
Food and Drink

Sriracha Plant Might Shut Down. Won’t Anyone Think of the Noodles?

It might be doomed to become a relic of the early millenium that our children and their non-scorched tastebuds will never understand.

Kristen October 31, 2013 7 Comments
TV News & Trailers

The “Bomb Girls” Movie Is Actually Really Officially Happening

“Take a break from writing that Betty/Kate fanfiction and rejoice, for the powers-that-be have heard our pleas and have made good on their promises because WE ARE BACK, WE ARE IN BUSINESS, AIN’T NOBODY FUCKIN WITH MY CLIQUE BECAUSE WE HAVE A MOVIE AND THAT MOVIE IS OFFICIAL.”

Kate October 30, 2013 45 Comments
Halloween Queer Fashion

Queer Outfit of the Week: Last Minute Halloween Costume

Get the perfect start to your super last minute Halloween costume!

Lizz October 30, 2013 30 Comments
Politics + Activism

Judge Declares Parts of Texas’ Abortion Bill Unconstitutional, Don’t Rejoice Just Yet

A federal judge ruled parts of Texas’ abortion law unconstitutional. But don’t rejoice just yet, access to abortion across the nation is still on the line.

Yvonne October 30, 2013 2 Comments
Book Features

Read A F*cking Book GIVEAWAY: Win a Copy of “Blue Is The Warmest Color”

We want to hook two commenters up with copies of Julie Maroh’s graphic novel, Blue is the Warmest Color!

A.E. Osworth October 30, 2013 278 Comments
Geekery

Monster Pop! Gives A Cute, Fun Look At College Life For Monsters

This shoujo-influenced webcomic tells the story of two best friends who are freshmen students at Unity University, a college where monsters and humans can live and learn alongside each other.

Mey October 30, 2013 7 Comments
Halloween

Halloween Dreams Come True: Robin and Carly as Morticia and Gomez Addams (!!!)

“I would die for her. I would kill for her. Either way, what bliss.”

Stef October 30, 2013 75 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Sally Kohn Gets The Heck Out of FOX and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Counting women in engineering, raising the next Steve Jobs in Mexico, and coming together to say: “f*ck the man.”

Carmen October 30, 2013 7 Comments
Queer Fashion

High Femme: What We Wear When We Blaze

“Now, I am hardly an expert on fashion. I dress like a 13-year-old boy, and I almost always value function over form. But I’ve compiled a few different essentials that I think make great smoke wear.”

Chelsea October 29, 2013 16 Comments
Politics + Activism

Queer Justice Means More Than Gay White Men Having Public Boyfriends

It’s not enough to have token representation and to not be constantly declared icky in prime time. Pieces like Carr’s cause damage because they encourage straight allies and queers to raise a drink in celebration of a fight well fought and won.

Adrian October 29, 2013 13 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects Halloween

Make A Halloween Thing: Salt Dough Ghosts

Who says Halloween can’t be adorable instead?

Hansen October 29, 2013 9 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Tiny Pineapple: The Next Big Thing on Small Screens

“We set out to make a show wherein the show opening and the credits were much longer than the show itself, and I think we succeeded here.”

Laneia October 29, 2013 35 Comments
Community

The Poet and The Scientist: The Last Notch on the Bible Belt

Oklahoma City, Denver, an Autostraddle Meet-up event and more poetry! Plus, Marine has some planning tips for your next great adventure!

Ashley Catharine October 29, 2013 2 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Once Upon A Time 305 Recap: The One With Two Moms

“But then Mulan came charging out of the closet, and one million homos stood up and said I KNEW IT, I FUCKING KNEW IT, MOTHERFUCKING HONOR TO US ALL.”

Kate October 29, 2013 38 Comments
Relationships

13 Ways to Make Your Long-Distance Relationship The Most Awesome Part of Your Life

You want to touch them, smell them and, if you’re me, bite their ear. Why don’t the forces of geography and physics rally to both your cries and fold the world up like origami until the front doors of your homes kiss?

Morgan M October 29, 2013 32 Comments
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