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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #75: Quinoa Cranberry Pilaf, Coregasm

Topics include New York’s fancy gentleman’s clubs, Thelma & Louise, porn in San Francisco, shitty jobs, domestic violence, oxycontin abuse, scientology, band names and so much more!

Riese May 10, 2013 9 Comments
Queer Fashion

A Bra That Fits Me: A Critique of The Chrysalis Lingerie Launch

“Chrysalis was going to be the best thing since sliced bread when it came to trans women. I eagerly clicked the link for the store. My jaw subsequently hit the floor, and I don’t mean that in a good way.”

Teagan May 10, 2013 60 Comments
Recipes

You Can Take It With You: Naked Samosas and Tamarind Chutney

This week I almost burned my apartment down. Let’s talk about how to prevent that and safer ways to fry delicious foodstuffs.

Laura May 10, 2013 14 Comments
School

Claire’s College Lesbianage: Thirteen Miles From Boston

“We are safe.” It was our mantra from Monday to Saturday. Every Facebook update, every phone call with a frantic friend or family member, we repeated, “We are safe.”

Claire May 10, 2013 11 Comments
Queer Fashion

Lez Get Dressed For Work: One Of A Lot Of Posts About Button Ups

I could probably talk to you about button ups forever. Someone stop me if you get bored.

Gabrielle Korn May 10, 2013 63 Comments
School

Kate’s College Lesbianage: Under The Full Moon

Relief, gratitude and staying out after everyone else has gone inside.

Kate B May 9, 2013 1 Comment
Geekery

“Wonder Women!” Is An Awesome Documentary About Women, Power and Diana Prince

Finally, some fantastic cultural analysis about women in power and women in patriotic spandex leotards saving the day.

Hansen May 9, 2013 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Pro-Gay AND Pro-Immigration? You’re Stuck Between A Rock And A Hard Place

Sane people want the new immigration bill to help binational gay couples. People in power insist that will ruin everything for everyone else. What’s a politically savvy queer to do?

Cara May 9, 2013 12 Comments
Book Lists

See The Fascinating Evolution of Cover Art From 12 Legendary Queer Books

Looking back at a century of cover designs from all over the world for beloved queer books like Tipping the Velvet, Orlando, The Color Purple, Annie on my Mind, Rubyfruit Jungle and more.

Riese May 9, 2013 27 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Masturbation Memory Lane: Roundtable and Open Thread

Autostraddle staff talks anonymously about when they started masturbating, among other things. Join us, won’t you?

A.E. Osworth May 9, 2013 91 Comments
Geekery

Team Pick: Hyperbole and a Half is Backish!

Kristen’s Team Pick. And I’m not even exaggerating.

Kristen May 9, 2013 28 Comments
First Person Pets & Animals

A Prairie Homo Companion: To Be More Like A Dog

Your dog doesn’t care that you’re an anti-social drunk bookworm.

Malaika May 9, 2013 21 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Drag Queens, Janelle Monae, and a Lesbian Gardner Play Ender’s Game

Carly directed a music video, Janelle Monae is still a queen in the future, Ender’s Game gets the Blockbuster treatment, and a new web series featuring gay siblings party together this week.

Brittani May 9, 2013 38 Comments
Music

Team Pick: Enough Punk To Last You At Least 3 Days

Cara’s Team Pick: “Women In Punk” offers dozens of hours of your favorite rock stars spliced together real nice on your computer. Wear your best headphones.

Cara May 8, 2013 7 Comments
Gender Health Issues

It’s Not Okay: Intimate Partner Violence in Radical Queer Spaces

“She acts like she’s such a victim when obviously there was abuse on both sides.” Awkwardly, I shrug my shoulders and look around the room. My partner doesn’t notice how uncomfortable she’s making me because she’s caught up in her own conjectures: “It’s like how we are sometimes.”

Emma May 8, 2013 24 Comments
School

Lillian’s College Lesbianage: Discontent and Determination

Over the last few weeks, there have been two incidents of vandalism found scrawled on the walls of one of the safest spaces on the Vassar campus”

Lillian May 8, 2013 1 Comment
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Queer Leadership Lives On and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Queer leadership, Mother’s day, marriage, Brittney Griner, and dumb homophobes.

Carmen May 8, 2013 6 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Mariel Cove: A Masturbation Month One-Handed-Read Review and Interview

Mariel Cove is a sexy new erotica serial by and for queer women, which means I had to have it immediately.

A.E. Osworth May 8, 2013 17 Comments
Music

Almost Famous: She King

Shawnee She King is a pop powerhouse from Toronto who recently hit #1 on Canada’s National Aboriginal Countdown chart.

Crystal May 8, 2013 6 Comments
Politics + Activism

Delaware Legalizes Gay Marriage, We Won A Thing!

Delaware became the 11th state to legalize same-sex marriage today!

Riese May 7, 2013 23 Comments
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