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Cover of Haggadah Min HaMeitzar. It includes the Yachatz silk painting with three vertical matzot where one looks like the earth split into two. It also includes the text "Haggadah Min HaMeitzar A Seder Journey to Liberation by Gabriella Spitzer."
Jewish Holidays

The Traditional and Radical Queer Haggadah I Wanted Didn’t Exist — So I Wrote It Myself

Nowadays, I ask, “how can my queerness deepen my Judaism, and how can my Judaism deepen my queerness?” Haggadah Min HaMeitzar is one answer to that question.

G March 26, 2023 13 Comments
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The L Word: Generation Q

“L Word: Generation Q” Cast Reacts To Show’s Cancellation With Love, Gratitude, Cute Pics and Some Light Shade

Following yesterday’s announcement of the cancellation of The L Word: Generation Q, cast members are posting some pretty adorable tributes on instagram!

Riese March 26, 2023 11 Comments
The 16 ships part of the Autostraddle March Madness Sweet 16
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness 2023: Trope-y Wives – Sweet 16

As usual, you’ve got 48 hours to cast your ballots in the Sweet 16. Remember, this year, you can vote four times over the voting period!

Natalie March 25, 2023 5 Comments
Out of drag, Mistress laughs with her new drag daughter, Ms. Ting. Ms. Ting is in a rainbow sweatshirt and has purple hair.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1513 Recap: Class In Session

The guest judge this week is Hayley Kiyoko, who shares the fun fact that she was in love with her first grade teacher Ms. Spear.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 25, 2023 8 Comments
In a two panel comic, in shades of twilight purple and yellow, Baopu — an Asian person with red hair — snuggles their cat in bed.
Webcomics

Baopu #110: Twilight Hours

A poetic feeling in the hour of the in-between.

Yao Xiao March 25, 2023 16 Comments
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A+ Crossword Has a Hair Appointment This Afternoon

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brooke March 25, 2023 9 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Definitely Not Cannibals

“Loved this and love being part of the cool club of Black queers obsessed with sad white man music!”

Darcy March 24, 2023 3 Comments
The Rookie: Feds - Simone raises a skeptical eyebrow as Naomi sits down next to her and tries to intoce her to the fine art of knitting. Simone is sitting on the left side of the couch, wearing a soft tee and cotton cardigan while Naomi wears a black jacket, a barely visible white shirt and black pants.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Give Us Our Queer Friends to Lovers Story, “The Rookie: Feds”!

Plus! Updates on How I Met Your Father, Good Trouble, All American, and The Watchful Eye.

Valerie Anne and Natalie
March 24, 2023 6 Comments
a gorgeous layout of the Finding the Fool book which is a gradient blue to purple with moon phases on it, set against a background of color coordinating tarot cards and crystals
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft Book Features

Meg Jones Wall on Queer, Expansive Tarot

“What if we just let all of these cards have gender neutral pronouns and we break them free from these gender binaries and let them be every archetype?”

Nico March 24, 2023 6 Comments
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Playlists

Playlist: Welcome to My Dyke SoulCycle Class

Lifting weights half-naked in my apartment? That calls for 190 to 200 BPM house and pop music only.

Julie Gentile March 24, 2023 4 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“The Five Devils” Is a Time-Traveling Lesbian Romance About Lives Not Lived

It’s simple to mourn the alternate history where I came out as a teenager. It’s more complicated to mourn the alternate history where I came out later or not at all.

Drew Burnett Gregory March 24, 2023 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Yellowjackets” Episode 201 Recap: Lend Me Your Ears

It’s winter! Adult Lottie is here! Teen Shauna sees dead people! Van’s declaring her love! Both Taissas are sleepwalking! Welcome back, Yellowjackets!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya March 24, 2023 169 Comments
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AF+ Meet-Ups / Events

TONIGHT! Watch the Yellowjackets Premiere With Us

Stingers up!

Nico March 24, 2023 2 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Must’ve Called a Thousand Times

We’ll, we’ll, we’ll…

Rachel March 24, 2023 5 Comments
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The L Word: Generation Q

Showtime Cancels “L Word: Generation Q,” Might Pursue New Reboot Set in NYC, What

Cancel Your Gays strikes again! Showtime has cancelled The L Word: Generation Q, but also apparently Ilene Chaiken’s already got a new NYC-set L Word reboot in development with the network, maybe?

Riese March 23, 2023 47 Comments
LGBT History TV Reviews

Daisy Jones & the Six Offers a Stunning Tribute to Black Queer Love, Freedom, and Disco

Bernie is a 1970s stud in the finest form. All eyelashes and a buttery voice that could make any femme blush. Simone never stood a chance.

Carmen Phillips March 23, 2023 17 Comments
I Will Find You Again by Sarah Lyu
LGBT Book Reviews

Love and Loss Lead to Healing in YA Novel “I Will Find You Again”

Sarah Lyu’s I Will Find You Again deftly captures the volatile nature of teenage girls falling in love with each other for the first time.

Sa'iyda Shabazz March 23, 2023 1 Comment
Composite photo of the 32 couples moving onto the second round of Autostraddle March Madness. Overlayed with the Trope-y Wives Logo.
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness 2023: Trope-y Wives – Round of 32

It’s time to cast your ballots to see which of these 32 couples will advance to the Trope-y Wives Sweet 16!

Natalie March 23, 2023 12 Comments
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TV Reviews

Shadow and Bone Season 2 Is Epic and Queer, but Fails Its Sapphic Characters

If you thought season one of Shadow and Bone was ambitious in combining two beloved book series, Netflix has one message for you about season two: “Hold my mead.”

Nic March 23, 2023 6 Comments
A Black woman with short, curly hair wears a navy blue tank top with white stripes and stands against a yellow background. She holds one hand in the other and grimaces, suggesting that she has chronic pain in her fingers.
Sex

How to Finger Your Partner When You Have Chronic Pain in Your Hands

A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.

Ro White March 23, 2023 17 Comments
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