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The words "You are going to be fine" written on a garage style door that is painted a soft pink.
First Person

I Used Instagram Mantras As Therapy — And It Worked

They served as daily messages your best friend should tell you when you’re hurting — and in desperate need of a silver lining.

Christina Anthony January 26, 2022 10 Comments
KeKe Palmer
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Keke Palmer Is So Stunning and Charming, She Should Be the Host of Everything on Earth Forever!

Also: Cynthia Nixon is doing Fashion now, which I am very pro!! And I cannot get over the fact that Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts are matching in this random selfie? Color coordinated!

Christina Tucker January 26, 2022 5 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Ah Yes, the Scammer-To-Girlboss Pipeline

A fun lil read on how scammers became cultural icons, a celebration of Tatyana Ali’s ‘90s fashion, an ode to plant parents, and who’s all gay at the winter olympics.

Carmen Phillips January 25, 2022 12 Comments
A person with brown skin types on a typewriter.
First Person

As a Black, Fat, Disabled Person in Love, My Monogamy Feels Radical

For me, navigating polyamorous dynamics with white people is inherently taxing and painful as a Black person.

Teighlor McGee January 25, 2022 19 Comments
Sofia Black-D'Elia as Sam in Single Drunk Female
TV Reviews

Freeform’s “Single Drunk Female” Finds the Funny in Sobriety

Single Drunk Female is a show about starting fresh, not just about drinking or not drinking.

Analyssa January 25, 2022 13 Comments
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Theater

It’s Your Anniversary: Rent Was My First Class On Anti-Capitalism

I felt even more galvanized by the queer anti-capitalist characters I had come to know so well — and felt seen in the small choices I made to work towards an anti-capitalist future.

Em Win January 25, 2022 3 Comments
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Lesbian Weddings

You Need Help: Your Future In-Laws Won’t Come to Your Wedding

It’s obvious you love your fiancé very much, and want to protect them from any agony the world wants to hurl at them. Unfortunately, you mostly can’t. But here’s what you can do instead.

Heather Hogan January 25, 2022 6 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2022: “Mija,” “Sirens,” and “Nothing Compares” Find Hope in a Hopeless World

This year at Sundance there are three documentaries about women in music — women who are tasked with navigating the hostile industry and our even more hostile world.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 24, 2022 1 Comment
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: One Year of JoJo Siwa Being Gay

Tig Notaro and Stephanie Allynne are making a second lesbian movie, Tessa Thompson and the many layers of identity, Jasmin Savoy Brown is having a moment, and more!

Heather Hogan January 24, 2022 6 Comments
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Book Lists

Eight Queer Punk and Counterculture Books Set in the 90s

90s queer punk / counterculture / DIY books coming up!

Casey January 24, 2022 13 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Euphoria” Episode 203 Recap: Great Tits and Kurt Cobain’s Haircut

It’s a big deal to have a trans girl character who is wearing a binder! I wish I trusted Sam Levinson to get into it more and to do it well.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 24, 2022 27 Comments
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Book Features

Morgan Thomas On Weaving Genderqueer History Into Their Debut Short Fiction Collection “Manywhere”

“I was really interested in writing about specifically Southern and genderqueer characters, in part because I felt like I hadn’t seen myself in both the literature and in the sort of ‘mythos’ of the South. So I wanted to fill in that gap.”

Abbie Jones January 24, 2022 6 Comments
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Music Quizzes

Quiz: Which 70s Soul/Disco Diva Are You?

We often romanticize the 70s for the music and the fashion — the two best parts about the decade. But could you really hack it as a badass babe in that era?

danijanae January 23, 2022 20 Comments
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TV Feature

Very Special Gay Episode: In 1986, Golden Girls Created the Most Enduring Lesbian Joke on Television

10 years before Ellen, 25 years before Santana (and if you’re keeping track — 35 years from today), Blanche Devereaux launched the joke that just will not die.

Carmen Phillips January 23, 2022 51 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Sundance 2022: “Framing Agnes” Is a Complicated Tribute to Trans Invisibility

Framing Agnes is about about the truths we share and the truths we will never know.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 22, 2022 3 Comments
drag race recap 1403: Kornbread, Kerri, Alyssa, June, Willow, and Bosco stand around a table staring down the other queens with smiles.
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1403 Recap: Blue Balls

RuPaul may have just RuPauled more than he’s ever RuPauled.

Drew Burnett Gregory January 22, 2022 11 Comments
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Webcomics

Reine #30: Conversation Hearts

Is romance dead?

Ren Strapp January 22, 2022 9 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: “Queens” Gives Us The Best Coming Out Speech in Years

Plus! Updates on 4400, Nancy Drew, New Amsterdam, NCIS: Hawai’i, and Claws!

Natalie, Valerie Anne and Carmen Phillips
January 21, 2022 3 Comments
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TV Reviews

Danielle Brooks’ Lesbian Character Is the Only Reason to Watch “Peacemaker”

In Danielle Brooks’ lesbian character Leota, Peacemaker finds the depth that it appears to be looking for in its star John Cena, and coming up short.

Carmen Phillips January 21, 2022 12 Comments
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Culture

Play This Autostraddle-Themed Spinoff of Wordle for a Good, Gay Time

This version of the internet’s latest favorite word puzzle game features words associated with Autostraddle. And you can play right now!

Sally January 21, 2022 113 Comments
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